Friend needs to lose alot of weight?!

Question: Friend needs to lose alot of weight!?
Ihave a friend that is very heavy!. I am 14 and so is he!. He asked me out and i said no to him and he thinks its because hes fat but its because hes more like a brother to me!. Lately hes been really hooked on getting fit!. I am very athletic and he wants me be his personal trainer!. I do not feel comfortable with this at all!. Also if he does achieve his goal of being fit hell expect me to like hime even though i already told him i wouldnt go out with him becsuse hes a good friend!. I do encourage him but being his personal trainer seems like a bit much!.!.!. What should i do

Be honest and tell him exactly how you feel!. Tell him what you would be willing to do - like take a walk with him once a week, or go on a 1 hour bike ride on Sat!. morning, or play a game of basketball for 1 hour on Tues afternoon - or what ever you ARE willing to do!. Tell him you are not qualified to be a personal trainer and you don't want that responsibility!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

tell him that ur a good athlete because you didn't have a trainer!.!.!.!.or that he needs to find his own way to be fit because everybodys body is different, tell him that you care about your friendship toward him and you just want to be friends!. If he wants to be fit he has to get into a sport!. he has to decide!. you cant tell him how to become fit!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

tell him your not even qualified to be his personal trainer!. tell him that in order for him to be really successful he needs to go to the gym, talk to his dr/parents about making a plan for him to lose weight!. tell him you can excercise, run/jog, play sports with him every oncWww@Answer-Health@Com

I think being his personnel trainer is a good idea!.!.!. frankly, i don't see why you should'nt!

I've had a few people like me in the past, and i'm around your age!. I rejected them, and now they're all my friendlys! :D Now, we see ourselves as brothers and sisters, too!. Non of the lovey dovey business!.

Pleeeeaaase be his personnal trainer!? :3Www@Answer-Health@Com

Tell him you don't want to be his personal trainer because it makes you uncomfortable!. He'll push but I absolutely agree, he's trying to make you like him!. It's probably best to say no and take a break for awhile!.

Good luck!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

dear hck
? respcet you so much because you are houner and do not l?e,you can tell h?m the fact that ?s the best way to make your cons?nse relax!.
may ? know where are you from ?n wh?ch country!?

just have a talk with him and explain to him why you wouldn't like him and that you want to be good friends, that's it, hopefully he'll understandWww@Answer-Health@Com

Dont be his personal trainer be his work out buddy!. Tell him if he wants a personal trainer he should get a professional!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

tell him you are not qualified to be a personal trainer!. Just because you are fit doesn't mean you have the knowledge to get him fit!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

well maybe you should just give him some tips and tell him in advance your worries!. okay!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

tell him good luck and you're not a personal trainer!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

run with him!. how are u so athletic!? cuz u do some "stuff" do those stuff with him!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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