How to stop slitting my wrists?!

Question: How to stop slitting my wrists!?
my friends will jst ask me y i do it nd i dn't wnt to answer that!. i no its pethetic but i think its cause my best friend likes this guy hu is both like our brother but the point is i really like him 2!. He seems to get along much better with her than me nd if she finds out that im doing this to myself, she'll blame me for copying her cause she did it once before and she has a habit of blaming people for copying her!. i definitly cn't tell the guy cus he doesn't even know i like him!. i don't think my life is worth living anymore!. i find slitting my wrists does hurt but i think its the only way i can stop myself from commiting suicide cause i no that commiting suicide could be quik and easy!. wat should i do cause i can't go to a doctor on my own cause im not old enough!. it doesnt help that ive never had a long term relationship and i think im definitly not pretty enough so id never get the guy i want!. please help me

Oh Darling please stop hurting yourself!. I know that's easier said then done when you feel that way!. I've been there before and now I am 20, happy and married!. No one is worth giving your life for!. You sound very young and I promise that if you just find positive people to hang with, not people who have hurt themselves too and try to blame you for their lack of originality, your life will start to get better!. I used to think I was ugly in every sense of the word and thought men and having a boyfriend would help that but they only hindered me!. I would try to pleaseeveryone around me and blend myself into what the men wantedme to be which was not who I wanted to be and it wasn't healthy at all!. I was told to seek medical help but honestly that's not what I needed!. I just needed someone to say I was pretty and love me and accept me for who I am and not try to change me!. You know, you may feel like your friends are the only ones holding you together but in reality they may be the very ones pulling you down!. The exact thing happened to me and now I don't hang with those types of people anymore, the ones who smoke junk and party and are whores and need you to feel bad in order for them to feel good about themselves!. Screw that! I don't even know who you are but I'm sure you're beautiful and kind and a great friend and anyone who disagrees is not worth the toilet paper I wipe my *** with! I hope I said the right things to help you and didn't in turn hinder you!. I hope all goes well sweetheart!. You ARE loved remember that!Www@Answer-Health@Com

first, you need to get help and tell someone!. you'll feel a lot better!.
then whenever you feel the need to, stop and think about why you're doing it!. instead of cutting yourself try writing down how you're feeling and doing other activities to get out your anger in a positive way!. like i know this may sound silly but try punching your pillow and screaming into it!. it really does help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You are not too young to go to a doctor,get help now!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

talk to your parents!.!.!.NOWWww@Answer-Health@Com

u iz dum looserWww@Answer-Health@Com

I have been in the same place you have!
I have had problems with cutting myself and I know how you feel!.
If you don't want to tell anyone, you don't have to because it is your own personal business!.
Some things that I think would help are:
1!. KEEPING A JOURNAL: This will help relieve some of your stress and emotions!. Look at it as having a close friend that you can tell important secrets and information to!. Writing out your emotions can sometimes help!.

2!. EXERCISE: No, you do not have to go and exercise extreemely hard, but exercise produces endofins, which help make you happy!. Even just going for a walk outside will help clear your head and put you in a better mood!. This is a good stress reliever!.

3!. FIND A HOBBY: Find something that you enjoy a lot, and when you feel like doing harmful things to yourself, take a few breaths and do your hobby!.

These are a few suggestions that I have!. I hope it helps you, because I know these things have helped me!.
Cutting yourself is something serious that not everyone can understand!.
Take baby steps, because it wont all happen overnight!.

GOOD LUCK!=]Www@Answer-Health@Com

You shouldn't be doing that just because your friend likes the same guy you do!.!. I love my friends big time, but friends aren't worth slitting your wrists!. Men aren't worth it either!. And life is totally worth living!. Just because you haven't gotten a guy that you want and never been in a long-term relationship ddoesn't mean anything!. Well, to you it might but guys aren't worth it(no offense guys)!. You have a lot of time ahead of you to find a guy!. For me, I started getting the guys I wanted in high school, but I don't date guys from school since most of them are immature!. And dont say your not pretty enough!.!. I used to say that about myself all the time, and from what I have seen, guys like a positive attitude!.!. Some guys I'm not too sure of but yeah!. And you might need to tell your parents!. They might beable to help you and give you support!. And you are not too young to get help!. Trust me!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You should not be too proud to seek help!. See a guidance counsellor!. Many people have been in your shoes and have wanted to commit suicide!. Take it from someone that looked AWAY from that abyss!.!.!.there's much more life to be lived and when you look back on what you are experiencing right now, you will be thankful you didn't commit suicide!. Everyone is repsonsible for their own happiness, and it's always inside of you, just waiting to be discovered!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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