Eating disorder and depression ! Please help ! Help needed fast! ?!
Question: Eating disorder and depression ! Please help ! Help needed fast! !?
So I've had depression for a very long time!. I was about 8 years old when I my depression started ( now I'm 15 )!. I think its because of my parents because all they do is want more and more out of me and yell at me!. Do they think I'm somekind of a superhero or what !?!?!? Since my depression started I have always had a thought of sucide but I know I would never do it!. Just killing my self inside :) And everytime my parents yell at me and say things like !.!.!. is lot better than you and stuff like that I just cry!. Because of my parents I have bulimia too!. It started in this summer!. When I purge like a little puke comes!. Can someone help me like how could I throw up more !?!?!? And yesterday I told my mum that I'm really depressed lately and sht denied it!. She said like it goes away and other people dont have it why do you think you have!. So could you please help me what to do with my parents!. Thanks :) Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Your story takes me back to my own teenage years!. Feeling depressed, being constantly put down with your parents and yes even Bulimia!. I was Belimic for a few years along with severe depression and it was just all about myself!. I had no confidence what so ever and no self esteem!. I felt so bad about myself that I didnt even leave the house for over a year!. I just hid away from the world and even felt so ashamed about what I looked like that for the whole time of never leaving the house, I covered myself up with a house coat that went to my ankles and as the depression gets worse, if you let it, you start to believe that even your personality and who you are is so bad that you feel a waste of space!.
Well, as someone who has been there, done that and had professional help and advice, I am able to pass on my knowledge to you, and that is, that all this lack of confidence in yourself as well as all the other mixed emotions you are going through, is caused by your parents always putting you down and never praising you about anything and although you may question why they put you down and dont consider your feelings, well its not until you grow up and have kids of your own that you realise, its them who have a problem, and its with themselves, so they are the last people to talk to about how your feeling and except advice from!. Go to your GP and tell exactly how you feel and that is your first step to becomeing normal inside!. You will probably be referred to counciling and most likely be put on some medication, and believe me all this will help you, so take all the help you can get!. And remember, everything is confidential with your GP, so you parents need know nothing, they wouldnt understand anyway!.
One more thing id like to say to you and hope you keep it with you and remember it always, its that, " HOW YOUR FEELING, IS JUST A FEELING AND IT WILL GO AWAY "
I wish you all the best for your future and if you feel you would like to discuss things further, especially as I have been there and done that!.
you may get in touch with me by email:
lynnmanderson3@yahoo!.comWww@Answer-Health@Com
Well, as someone who has been there, done that and had professional help and advice, I am able to pass on my knowledge to you, and that is, that all this lack of confidence in yourself as well as all the other mixed emotions you are going through, is caused by your parents always putting you down and never praising you about anything and although you may question why they put you down and dont consider your feelings, well its not until you grow up and have kids of your own that you realise, its them who have a problem, and its with themselves, so they are the last people to talk to about how your feeling and except advice from!. Go to your GP and tell exactly how you feel and that is your first step to becomeing normal inside!. You will probably be referred to counciling and most likely be put on some medication, and believe me all this will help you, so take all the help you can get!. And remember, everything is confidential with your GP, so you parents need know nothing, they wouldnt understand anyway!.
One more thing id like to say to you and hope you keep it with you and remember it always, its that, " HOW YOUR FEELING, IS JUST A FEELING AND IT WILL GO AWAY "
I wish you all the best for your future and if you feel you would like to discuss things further, especially as I have been there and done that!.
you may get in touch with me by email:
lynnmanderson3@yahoo!.comWww@Answer-Health@Com
I really feel for you - I ws anorexic for 15 years before I beat it You really must get help NOW! Go and see your doc, because your parents are obviously no help!. Get a friend to go with you maybe!. You must sort this before it gets any worse - throwing up can fast become a very dangerous habit!. You really need to talk to a professional fast and get yourself some help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Go to a school counciler and tell them everything,if they can't help,they know someone who can!.There are many resources out there!.Find them!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
im really sorry!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.i have also had thoughts of killing myself cuz of my parents!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.i hope u feel better!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Honey, could you seek a counselor at school who could help you!? Your doctor!? Maybe a teacher you're close with!? If your mom doesn't take this seriously now, it could get a lot worse!. Find someone to take it seriously now!. I've had Anorexia and depression for years and it's no picnic!.
you could try shocking her: tell her about the bulimia!. Tell her, "did you know the leading cause of death in eating disordered patients is suicide and the second leading cause of death is cardiac arrest!? I need you to take this seriously, mom!. I am not trying to scare you, but I need your help and if you won't help me I will need to find it somewhere else!."
Best of luck!!!
AshleyWww@Answer-Health@Com
you could try shocking her: tell her about the bulimia!. Tell her, "did you know the leading cause of death in eating disordered patients is suicide and the second leading cause of death is cardiac arrest!? I need you to take this seriously, mom!. I am not trying to scare you, but I need your help and if you won't help me I will need to find it somewhere else!."
Best of luck!!!
AshleyWww@Answer-Health@Com
That's very sad, and I feel for you!. But I think you should start taking some responsibility for this!. You sound like you know why you're doing this, you sound like someone who has analyzed what it is that's going on with yourself!. You're the only one who can do something about it!.
You sound intelligent, you know throwing up more isn't going to help you!. Start finding things to do that you know are healthy and that make you feel good about yourself and your place in the world!. Get involved in something at school that you care about, you'll make new friends and feel like you're contributing!.
It's unfortunate that your parents aren't supporting you, that happens to so many people and it is awful!. But you can take control of your own life!. You're 15, you're just starting high school, use this as an opportunity to reinvent yourself, find things you love to do, and leave some of the demons you've been dealing with for so long behind!.
If you take a proactive approach you'll be taking control of your own life, your own thoughts, and your own body!. Set up a weekly meeting with a school counselor just to talk about what you want your life to be and how you're going to make it that way!. You may have to do all this without your parents' support, but know that you can do this on your own!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You sound intelligent, you know throwing up more isn't going to help you!. Start finding things to do that you know are healthy and that make you feel good about yourself and your place in the world!. Get involved in something at school that you care about, you'll make new friends and feel like you're contributing!.
It's unfortunate that your parents aren't supporting you, that happens to so many people and it is awful!. But you can take control of your own life!. You're 15, you're just starting high school, use this as an opportunity to reinvent yourself, find things you love to do, and leave some of the demons you've been dealing with for so long behind!.
If you take a proactive approach you'll be taking control of your own life, your own thoughts, and your own body!. Set up a weekly meeting with a school counselor just to talk about what you want your life to be and how you're going to make it that way!. You may have to do all this without your parents' support, but know that you can do this on your own!.Www@Answer-Health@Com