How does a 14 year old girl thats fat, get a boyfriend?!
Question: How does a 14 year old girl thats fat, get a boyfriend?
I have dated some guys before. I wanted to know if there was any hope for me getting a bf while I'm fat or losing weight. I don't know what to do anymore, all I want is for guys to think I'm pretty and not think of my as just another one of their friends. Please help! Thanks :)
Answers:
Well, in time you'll find the right guy. My friend has been the same way. She was also afraid she would lose all her friends but she didn't. One day someone had asked her out and had always secretly liked her. SO when the right time and the right guy comes along then that will be your time. Until then don't worry about it. There are other things you could be thinking about then a Bf right now since you are only 14.
Personal expirience
Most fat people, myself included, just can't get a partner because they don't think they can. If you're really that worried about it, then lose some weight, but since your picture doesn't work I can't really say whether you're too fat to be attractive or not. I've had girls interested in me, and I'm ******* 300 pounds.
Find someone who likes u for who u are. There is always hope for u, just like everyone else. I'm a little chunky but I have an sediment guy who loves every bit of me!
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most guys your age are too immature to be a serious boyfriend, so don't worry about it!
you will get bf in due time, women are liked in all different sizes, God made you the size you are
I hate it when ppl gove those cliche ans "Find one that like u for who u are". Those men are rare and don't exist. Most girls that are overweight had to "put out" just to get a boyfriend. In high school there were girls bigger than me with boyfriends and I couldn't understand how and it made me feel REALLY bad, but i realized those girls had such low self esteem that they "put out" to get a boyfriend. If u truly feel that ur weight may stop u from getting a boyfriend then maybe u should work on trying to lose some weight. I'm sorry if I come off blunt or mean and trust me I am in no way trying to. I, myself am fat and never dated and want to date and realizing I may have to lose weight in order to start dating besides losing weight has tons of benefits health wise and confidence wise.