I'm almost 15, tall, skinny and flat-chested! I hate it! What should I do?!


Question: I'm almost 15, tall, skinny and flat-chested! I hate it! What should I do?
I started my period a little over a year ago and I am still very skinny with tiny boobs. You would think maybe I'm a late bloomer, but then why am I so tall! I am 5''7' which is taller than most girls my age, but I weigh very little (not sure how much). People constantly comment on my weight, and are like "I'm scared to hug you 'cause you might break!" or "Wow your legs are too skinny," and I feel horrible. I tell them I don't like it, but they don't seem to care. :(
I have very little curves, and almost no boobs. I know you will say at 15 I shouldn't be worried about guys, but I can't help it! When I was younger, like 12-13ish and no one was really developed, I used to get some attention from guys, but now I get none because they're after the more curvy, big-breasted girls.
My mom's breasts are B cups and she is pretty skinny, but she is much shorter than me. What should I do about this? I feel very self-conscious and want to gain weight and have bigger boobs. BTW I am not allowed a push-up or padded bra..

Answers:

Oh, you are probably very nice - and you should just do whatever you would have done otherwise ;o)

Yes, of course you think about boys at 15 - but don't get too much ahead of yourself though... The boys won't be ready for serious relations for a few years yet ;o) (That would also be advice for any girl!)

They are interested - they just don't really understand the concept of being that much together with one person yet. (remember, the girls might have one bff, doing everything together - whereas the boys were more like "who's for football today")

But anyways, they are interested - but two reasons you don't know:

1) You are all panicked about the things you say in your qestion, so you don't notice when they are.

2) They don't understand your panic if they like you - you'd surely know that you are the eighth wonder of the world (they believe), but they do register that there is a great risk that you may run away oif they make a move on you, leaving them standing there - the most dreaded situation for a teen boy ;o) So when they are attracted to you, they may not reveal it to you. That way they don't run that risk.

But I am sure you are nice - the whole girlsih colours, softness, "pH value", the alien thoughts and feelings and so on. All that are nice, and breasts of course are close to divine (your size too), so no problem in all that.

But still if you want a teen boy to make a move on you, you gotta try not to look like you would run away immediately ;o)

Anyway, there is no haste - these things happen, when they happen. Nobody can rush it (although some do of course). But you don't need to do anything special. If the way I talked about made any sense to you, you can also see why it is much more safe for a boy to hint or declare some interest in a girl he is sure is not going to run away - right?




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