How would you feel if your son had a obese 300 pound girlfriend?!


Question: How would you feel if your son had a obese 300 pound girlfriend?
I am not being mean, as I have had a weight problem most of my life, and struggle everyday to get healthy! My son is already over weight, with high cholestral. And has gained more since having this girlfriend. I am concerned for his health, and did not wish this struggle on my son!

Answers:

You need to talk to your son about it and tell him. You didn't say how old he is?

Edit:
Right well l think you and he need help with both of your diets. Why did he get to how he is now? Did you control his diet when he was younger or did you let him eat what he wanted? lt is hard for a parent to say no and that's probably why he is how he is now. The best recommendation for you both is to visit your doctor and get referred to a dietitian who can assess both of your eating plans and decide on what you both need to have.

Little changes go a long way! You will also create a bond with your son by doing this. Why not both of you join a gym and go together to motivate each other, cook healthy meals together & l would recommend joining MyFitnessPal.com for other members to motivate you! Honestly, change it now before it is too late. You both don't want to be thinking who is going to outlive one another first and high cholesterol should be a warning for him already.

Edit2:

l'm not blaming you at all! l am just saying sometimes that is the possible cause, because l have been through the same thing when my mum couldn't be bothered making proper meals for me so l had to keep on snacking all the time so l am sorry if l have 'offended' you in some way! All l can say is that he's an adult now; he HAS to control what he puts in his mouth & he has to learn to tell his girlfriend to back off if she ever forces him to eat anything.



why is everbody meen to fat people?
but realy if your son over wieght set a amount of wiegh you want him 2 lose in a year and if he loses it pay him money like $250 or $300 seriouly money is a realy good motavater.



maybe it is a medical issue if you say not fattening foods & not eating out hardly maybe it is a Thyroid conditions

apple a day keep the doctor away



I'd invite her over for dinner, and sit down and tell her to her face.

"No fat chicks allowed"

then ask her to get out.

:)




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