Why is dating someone over weight or obese ....?!


Question: Why is dating someone over weight or obese ....?
such a bad thing why do guys choose (not all skinny women) skinny women that treat them like crap over a over weight girl that would treat them like a king ? Personally I think you should choose a person for who they are inside then on the out side someone who is going to love and stand by you no matter what isn't that more important then what a person looks like on the outside ?

Answers:

You are exactly right - if someone cares about your weight and dont want to get to know who you are inside then - hey dont go there.



We just would not date fat chick over an attractive chick. It would not be a satisfying relation ship because you would not be attracted to the person you are dating. The truth is, men do not care about whats on the inside, All we care about are looks. Take it from me, I'm a guy and this is how we all think. We don't want to date someone ugly and that will make us gag. It just won't be a satisfying relation ship if you are not attracted to the person you are dating. It just doesn't work.



I don't think weight has a lot to do with personality. I have seen some very nasty fat women and vice versa.

Guys are programmed differently than women. We go for looks more than personality. (I remember reading a biologist stated that men go after what their brains see as a highly fertile and healthy. women pick men using a different set of criteria)

Back to your question...some men are emotionally immature and seek out women with bad personalities. Just like some women seek out abusive relationships due their own emotional insecurities.



a question a psychologist would certainly be more qualified to answer than a diet and fitness expert. To be frank though, the vast majority of guys are holding out to find a girl who is attractive AND has a good personality. Why settle for just one attribute when you can possibly get both? They do exist, those criteria just limit the amount of potential matches you could find. On the same note, fat girls can be bitches too, I know plenty.



i know eh?!
society is so screwed up these days
They only care about what is on the surface than inside a person's heart
it's like the saying "it's not the size of the waist that matters but the size of the person's heart that truly matters"
people nowadays can be so superficial and judgemental these days and it is not fair.



Because alot of guys don't take the time to find out how great these girls are because they are to hung up on their being overweight. And yes they do often have to find out the hard way that they shouldn't have judged a book by it's cover!



that's good for you! but unfortunately, it's just not how people are. at your age (i'm guessing you're 12-17), people don't really want a real relationship with someone who loves them, they want quickies.



Most people view that way. My view is if they're in better shape, they care more about their body and care about stuff more passionatly in general rather then people who just let themselves go. Idk



You're absolutely right, Scott.




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