How to tell her she is FAT?!


Question: How to tell her she is FAT?
I met this girl online. She is fat. Everything in her is perfect except for the fact that she is fat. I knew she has a thyroid problem. Will she really be normalI if her thyroid problem was treated? I don't know how to bring this to her attention. I don't wanna lose her, but at the same time I hate to be with an obese girl. I wanna ask her to see a doctor for this problem but i don't know how to to say it without hurting her feelings. PLEAE ADVISE !

Answers:

meet up with her and take her walks at first. Then start going to a local YMCA or GYM



lol, no offense but you're kind of rude.

but anyways, i guess you can't really say "you're fat" directly to her. but if you met her online, do you guys ever meet up? 'cause maybe when you meet up, you can always imply that she's "fat" from time to time, and not make it obvious. or maybe you can ask her to join you to jog in the morning 'cause you don't wanna jog alone or something like that. but if you met this girl online, i don't know how you're gonna possibly date her in real life. if it's online, then maybe you should just find another girl, like. if you're not gonna meet her in person, then what's the point? lol, know what i mean? good luck with your situation though. wish you the best of luck~ :D



How much overweight is she? Even if she has a thyroid problem, if she's obese then she eats too much, period. If you don't like her looks, don't feel bad. You shouldn't have.to settle. You don't owe her an explanation either, you can simply tell her you are only interested in being.friends.



Ew, you don't deserve her with that attitude. I'd advise you if you cared about her weight because of her health or something, but you are just ... ew, everything that is wrong with society.



Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, Darren. Let her go RIGHT NOW so she can be loved by someone for the person she is, not the person you want her to be.



Tell her you're concerned for her health, if she responds negatively, say you're concerned for your health.

Buy her clothes that are huge, she might get the hint.

No fatties allowed



Hi, you're a fata**. Goodbye.

You're probably no catch either, so you should probably just settle for her.



Go on walks at the park ask her if she wants to go to the gym with you



I'm sure she knows it. Personality is more important anyway.



Grow up. If you really like/love her, it doesn't matter what number is on the scale.



tell her she's beautiful, but it's her health in the future that you're worried about.



dont do that



you are shallow



Just say "you fat b**ch, go on a diet, you dinosaur"



Just say, no offence but your over wieght, we need a doctor




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