My dentist said I have to get my tooth out or he will.?!

My dentist said I have to get my tooth out or he will.?

I am 13 and I have all my adult teeth except my top left eye tooth. The other is comming through. I currently have a plate to push forward my top right eye tooth and my baby one is just moving up and out. The bottom of it is litterally at the side, no joke. My dentist said if its not out by 2 weeks when I go back he will pull it out. I have had aobut 8 teeth pulled out by the dentist with only 2 pulled with needles. They all hurt very bad. My teeth have always been hard to get out, same with my dad, nanna, aunties and cousins. My dad and Nanna had to get put to sleep and they had to but out her wisdom teeth because they wouldnt come out any other way. I have wiggled them, hit it with a spoon (ive been told it works), and numbed it with ice. I hate pain and will NOT use string. I am going back to the dentist on Tuesday 2 weeks. He said there is no roots, its just holding by my gum. Is there any PAINLESS way to get it out? As I had thought of ice but never tried until my friend said it.

1 month ago
Nah its my top right eye tooth.

If there is no root holding the tooth, only gum, there is a local gum pain local anaesthetic you can buy at a drug store - the name Anbesol comes to mind, but there may be others. It is designed for local tooth pain but read the label - you want something that will numb the gum. If there is no feeling in the gum, the tooth should come right out.