Gingivitis? Periodontal disease? Absess? which one is it?!

Gingivitis? Periodontal disease? Absess? which one is it?

I've had swollen gums where my 2nd molars are for the past week. At first I ignored the swelling, thinking it was because of the unhealthy diet I was having that week, but a week later the swelling hasnt disappeared. The swollen gums are starting to hurt when i eat and I try to avoid using that part of my mouth altogether now. I've tried looking for more information as to what could be the possible cause and Ive come across: Gingivitis, Periodontal disease, absess or wisdom teeth. Im unsure as to which one it is since the symptoms for all of them seem to be so similar. My symptoms are: swollen gums, pain, i think puss coming out now (gross..i know). I do brush twice a day and occasionally use mouthwash.

I'm afraid to go to the dentist because of bad childhood experiences. So any suggestions or reassurance that the dentist isnt so bad, would be great. Thanks!

Hi there! the only way somebody (a dental professional) can give you a diagnosis is simply with the help of X-rays (periapical & bitewings), gingivitis is a periodontal disease and could cause an absess but so can do a deep cavity that envolve a dental nerve, with the x-ray is easy to determine what is the exact origin of the infeccion. I don't know your age, but if you are around 17 or 21 year old with the same X-ray the dentist can tell you if the 3rd molar is the cause. So don't be afraid go to the dentist, he or she will help you.
you wrote you brush twice a day and sometimes use mouthwash, what about flossing? Good Luck!