Whats the worst thing in your life you have gad to deal with.?!


Question: It can be anything, for you that has been difficult or challenging, i just want to know that problems are everywhere and that people should know that we are never alone. =]

Answers: It can be anything, for you that has been difficult or challenging, i just want to know that problems are everywhere and that people should know that we are never alone. =]
Well...my life is pretty complicated. my mother is a little crazy. we never went to school, or to the doctor, or anything. We had a very sheltered life. My mom was sorta involved in a cult....
Then my sister got really sick, and she didnt do anything about it. So my sister died...That has been the hardest thing.
So the state took the rest of us away (I have 6 siblings) so we were in and out of shelters and peoples homes for a few months, then we got to go back home. But then my younger brother burned his feet at a Sunday barbeque, and she didnt take him to a hospital (it was 3rd degree burns mostly) until a few days later. So we got taken again. So for the next couple years we've been in all sorts of foster homes and shelters. Then my aunt (we had been out of contact with them since I was like 5. My mom told us they were evil) well she came back into our lives, and we hated her at first, but we came around. Then me & my two older sisters and one of my lil bros went to go live with her. Then they sent my bro to a mental hospital, because he had anger problems...
Another story, but we werent allowed to talk to this one family that was like our bff's. My oldest sis was dating one of them..So she would talk to him anyways, and my aunt & uncle got really mad at her for that. She was a cutter, and so that made her cut, so they stuck her in an institution for a few days. Then when she came back and found out it was them that did that, she got kicked out. Then a few days later they kicked me & my other sister out. Anyways, we stayed in another shelter for 7 months, then we got to go live with my dad (during all this my parents got divorced) but he is a druggy, so that hasnt been easy...suppose its better tho!

Damn, that was muuuuch longer then I meant it to be!! Sorry! You dont have to read it all...I guess I'm just in a typing mood today lol.
Well thank you! it sort feels better to talk about stuff. You can talk to me too hun!
Thanks hun! So much.. Report It

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    • Having selfish and distracted parents who didn't give a crap what I did with my life after I turned 14. It was a free for all of partying, dropping out of school and drugs..

    It really messed me up for years. 16 years later I'm a different person and I still think often of their parenting and why I haven't been in contact with them in almost 10 years.

    What I did learn from it... People can change but they have to do it on their own. It also taught me to be a loving parent to my son. We talk about everything and a day never goes by that I don't tell him I love him.

    So in a nutshell. My horrible childhood allowed me to be a nurturing and caring parent.
    Well it might sound kind of stupid to you since i'm still young (16)
    But at the beginning of the school year I lost some of my closest friends, just because of stupid rumors.
    At first I didn't know what I was going to do, but then I started thinking, and I realized how dependant I was on them and so many other people.
    I ended up just saying screw it, and made so many more new friends, and they are awesome.
    So I'm am actually glad that all of that happened, because it was literally life changing, now i'm way more independant, and I am so much happier with my life.
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    well, there's quite a lot.

    my step mother was abusive to me and my dad didn't do anything about it. when i finally decided to confront him about it, he said that he didnt care. i went to my mom's house and i stayed there for a long time, but my stepmother found ways to hack my email and myspace and read what i had been saying to people. we went to court and now i live with my mom, but i don't get to see my baby brother grow up ):

    my best friend's brother died of an oxycotin (sp?) overdose at a party. this was especially sad because he was only 19 (3 weeks away from twenty), had a twin sister, and he was like my own brother. this was in september. it's just recently hit my best friend that he's gone, and she's been really stressed and taking it out on me and my 3 other best friends...

    most recently (yesterday) my grandfather had an artery collapse and had to go into open-heart surgery within the hour. he lives in a different state, and my mom drove to go see him (but my sister and i stayed here with the grandmother that divorced him.) we dont know all the details, or if he's even alright. this is so hard because he is the family member who respects my decisions the most. he got me interested in the older music like pink floyd by showing it to me personally. and i've never lost a grandparent before, so it will be REALLY hard if anything happens.


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