I Don't know what To do Anymore , What would you Do If this was you ?!


Question: Im so tired of waking up and having the same problems , it makes me not want to wake up anymore. I have Major Depression , and I can't stand Hurting anymore. I wake up and hurt and I use the rest room about 25 to 30times a day Im tired of this. Im very Tired of my Life Like this I just cant do it anymore No more. I have Intersticial Systitis , and major Depression , I sleeped in tell 4:00pm today and now the light is gone , and so is my soul. What Kind of life Is this.
My Husband has been layed off , and we have No money to pay our Bills , and I just Baught A home , and Im just tired , and my home is A mess and I just can't get myself to do anything anymore. I just Moved To Texas from California , And I have no family out here and I miss them so much , and I feel so alone. And what is the worst is my Kids have to watch there Mommy hurt every Day , and they feel so bad about It . What should I do. Im to Much of A burden to my life and My Familys.
Im scared , Im really Scared


Answers: Im so tired of waking up and having the same problems , it makes me not want to wake up anymore. I have Major Depression , and I can't stand Hurting anymore. I wake up and hurt and I use the rest room about 25 to 30times a day Im tired of this. Im very Tired of my Life Like this I just cant do it anymore No more. I have Intersticial Systitis , and major Depression , I sleeped in tell 4:00pm today and now the light is gone , and so is my soul. What Kind of life Is this.
My Husband has been layed off , and we have No money to pay our Bills , and I just Baught A home , and Im just tired , and my home is A mess and I just can't get myself to do anything anymore. I just Moved To Texas from California , And I have no family out here and I miss them so much , and I feel so alone. And what is the worst is my Kids have to watch there Mommy hurt every Day , and they feel so bad about It . What should I do. Im to Much of A burden to my life and My Familys.
Im scared , Im really Scared

If your husband is layed off, check on unemployment or one or both of you look for work so you have some kind of income. This is what you need to do, sit down and look at your kids. watch them when they dont know that your watching them. I have been depressed with all the crud going on in my life. but when i sit back and look at my kids, i know that they need me. hears what you do, get up tomorrow, take a shower spruce yourself up. clean your house, make breakfast for you and your family. call your family that lives in california. sit back and enjoy your family. do something as a family. get some income flowing. you need to wake up. yes you are hurting your kids by making them see you hurt. you can do things to change, i did! GOOD LUCK

I know just how you feel I went through bad depression after my son was beaten to death by a gang the only thing you can do is keep at it took me 5 yrs to get out of depession. Report It


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  • try findint an interest, like working out, cooking or gardening, do that you will look forward to something and it will take your mind off of everything. It will also give you more strength to get up in the morning. try to find something to do with your kids so that they can see what a fun person you are and you will have time to share with them. it will e something that modivates you.

    all the best!

    hope it helps<3!

    A mum is never a burden for her kids.
    Many people suffer from major depression at some stage of their life. And 99% of them recover, so let that be the light at the end of the tunnel. One day you will get over it and be happy again. Promise.

    I would suggest you see a counsellor of some kind. I am not sure what Intersticial Systitis is, so I cant help with that. Ask your doctor to recommend a hospital counsellor if possible.

    Hey, move back to where your family is. If your husband isnt working then there is no reason to be there.

    Goodluck.

    With your family you should find a good Church. I can tell you, life is to grand to just give up. You have children and a husband who need you.

    Take one day at a time and seek God and a solid church for help.

    God Bless

    You sound depressed enough to need a Dr.NOW...I know you say your without money,but call your Dr's.office & tell them what's going on,& ask if they can refer you to a free clinic for treatment...It's important that you take care of yourself & think of your children..whenever things seem the most terrible,something happens & you realize that life isn't as bleak as it feels...you sound like your having severe depression,which is a treatable illness...But,you have to seek help before you can get it.The sooner you start treatment,the faster you will improve...The best to you.

    Many people have been where you are right now. Maybe not the same exact circumstances,but I have gone through many trials in my life and the only thing that has truly helped me is prayer. You don't even have to be a super religous person to pray. You might already be doing so:) I want you to know that GOD knows what you are going through right now. I know you have medical problems and I'm sorry I don't the answer that will stop your pain all I can suggest is prayer as a way of dealing with it:) I will pray for you too:) and your family. Take care





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