Why women angry when monthly mentioned?!
Question: why, when something so natural as a womans monthly hormonal balance is mentioned, most women get angry and won't own up to the fact that their emotions may be hingeing on the fact that their hormones are in overdrive?
Answers: why, when something so natural as a womans monthly hormonal balance is mentioned, most women get angry and won't own up to the fact that their emotions may be hingeing on the fact that their hormones are in overdrive?
Because men use hormones sometimes to discount a woman's reaction or feeling about something. Like saying, "She doesn't really feel that way, it's just PMS." It pretty much labels women as bumbling fools or hysterical psychos during that time of the month. Not to say that women aren't more sensitive and moody around their cycle, but we still have all of our faculties. Women are naturally more emotional than men, because we are, by design nurturers and caretakers and we need these qualities to raise compassionate children. I think many times men think that showing an emotion- other than anger, is showing weakness. When a woman gets emotional or touchy or angry it's just that we express many more emotions than men do, and men perceive this a hysterical melt-down, when all actually we are just trying to get you to show some emotion back, some concern, comfort, understanding etc.
That's why we get offended when you mention our time of the month. Sometimes you have just hurt our feelings or pissed us off, and we offer a legitimate response, not a hormone-induced hysteria that will all be forgotten when our period is over.
Sorry, wrote this quickly.
think about it. If you want to speak about such a hot topic issue, it may not be the best time while your female friend is in the midst of being emotional... Also in my experience many men use this act of nature as an excuse for self promotion.. So tread lightly.. If you have never experience having your period you may not be the best expert on the issue.
Usually, it's the way it's mentioned. I loathe it when someone,
almost always a man, says, oh, is it your "time"? Is that why you're so upset? And why, in any event, would it ever come up in any normal conversation with a man? We already know it's natural, we don't need to discuss it with a man.
coz they can't have sex