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Question: Im having alot of problems with school and stress. Sometimes i just dont even want to go to school because i dont like the people that go there. i dont have many friends; not because i dont have a good personality, but rather that im not very social. im an introvert, and im very shy.
I am being tested for an auto immune disease. they dont know what it is yet, but i always feel bad and my fingers turn blue. like you scribbled on a piece of paper with a pencil, and rubbed the back of your hand with it, but a little bluer. This can be caused by emotional stress.
it seems like i dont have anymore self confidence. sometimes i feel pretty, but most of the time i spend hours just wishing i was different, and prettier, and i dont like the way i look at all...
im 15 years old, and im a sophomore.
can anyone help me?


Answers: Im having alot of problems with school and stress. Sometimes i just dont even want to go to school because i dont like the people that go there. i dont have many friends; not because i dont have a good personality, but rather that im not very social. im an introvert, and im very shy.
I am being tested for an auto immune disease. they dont know what it is yet, but i always feel bad and my fingers turn blue. like you scribbled on a piece of paper with a pencil, and rubbed the back of your hand with it, but a little bluer. This can be caused by emotional stress.
it seems like i dont have anymore self confidence. sometimes i feel pretty, but most of the time i spend hours just wishing i was different, and prettier, and i dont like the way i look at all...
im 15 years old, and im a sophomore.
can anyone help me?

I know things are tough...

I feel exactly like you do.
I hate school so much, its at the point where I want to drop out.

But you have to stick it out! Once you've graduated, and have your life on track, you can lookback and laugh at all the people who made things hard for you.

I'm terribly shy too, so I dont have many friends, but I have made a couple of good ones.
It will be hard, but try and branch out, put yourself out there some, and meet some great people. Not everyone is a jerk, it just seems like it sometimes.

Maybe join a club or some extra-curricular activity? Something that will interest you. Then you can meet people with common interests!

I'm sure your a very beautiful girl! Self-esteem issues are tough. Lord knows I have problems with that!!
But you have to see yourself for how beautiful you really are, and realize, that that doesnt matter anyways.... You have a beautiful personality!

Good luck!

Don't feel bad about yourself, you are a beautiful, successful, pleasent person. if you need help, or a friend to talk to, my email is on my profile. I hope you feel better.

dear.u are only 15..why so much stress?u can email me if u want ok hunny...Dont be sad....please dun...

Hey!
Cheer up,You said you wanted to be prettier and different...You are on the inside and outside but the other people at school won't know that unless you open up a start chatting! Maybe you should tell your parents how your feeling or maybe a new best friend? Hope you feel better soon. :^D

it's ok! i've been there before. just like you i hated my school and i'm so shy it hurts,but i don't beat myself over it(well sometimes...and i hate it).you are who you are that's what makes us unique(i know it sounds corny, but it's true) hang w/ people who understand you and don't ask you to change.if people mess w/ you just tell them to f*** off and find some one to talk about what really bothers you and causes you stress. remember you are unique and no one can be like you.





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