How can i stop home sick ness?!!!!?!


Question: i use to live in urope all my life and moved to australia a year ago i dont wont to go back because i know that my country is in the bad situations at the moment and i dbout it if things could get better but i still miss my old life it feals like i cant seem to addemt hear knowig the fashion is a bit late and i dont even have close friends to open up to. i do have a boyfriend but still nothing replaces a best friend i feal like the loner i never been in all my life i eus to be very friendly and happy but i cant see why i shuld and if i try it feals so fake


Answers: i use to live in urope all my life and moved to australia a year ago i dont wont to go back because i know that my country is in the bad situations at the moment and i dbout it if things could get better but i still miss my old life it feals like i cant seem to addemt hear knowig the fashion is a bit late and i dont even have close friends to open up to. i do have a boyfriend but still nothing replaces a best friend i feal like the loner i never been in all my life i eus to be very friendly and happy but i cant see why i shuld and if i try it feals so fake

It just takes time. Try to get involved in with others thru groups that have to do with your interests. Try some classes offered thru near by schools or librarys. Keep yourself busy. Try to make new friends. You will always miss home, that wont stop but keep yourself busy & hopefully things will get better &you may be able to visit home again. Good luck with everything & hang in there. It will get better.

Go home

if it is not possible to go home then you just have to try your hardest to make friends go to cafes, the gym, cinema anywhere public and try and get chatting to people once you make a friend who you feel you can talk to the fashions and missing things wont feel so bad but unfortunatl the whole feeling of being homesick wont dissapear as it was you native home it would be strange if you didnt miss it. i often get homesickness just from being on holiday for a week so i can imagine things feel really bad for you at the moment but chin up and make some friends you will fell loads better! x

Make new friends is the best way. Pretty soon they will be your new family.

try to make friend with at least one and try to make that relationship be better everyday , you should know that you always have opportunities to have your new own best friend. If everything doesn't seem to be better, you may try your best to study as hard as possible in order to forget what things are going on in life...By the way, it's very good that you have a boyfriend because, in my opinion, you can share your feelings with him, and tell him that you miss your old life so much. Then, you should try having a trip back to Europe if you still feel lonely

I really don't know what kind of things thatyou are into but maybe you could join some different groups that have similar interests as you. Open up to your boyfriend and tell him how you feel.
If your best friend is truely your friend (he or she) is always just a phone call, letter or email away.
I have been friends with my best friend since I was 6 she has lived in Oklahoma since she was 16, I miss her like crazy butr we talk on the phone alot, we email when we can, and visit each other once in awhile. She is still my closest friend and I wouldn't trade her for anything.

hope this helps.

You said you had a boyfriend where yo currently live right? I'm sure he has a few friends he can introduce you to. I guess you could just try and make new friends where you are now. Try not to look back too much, just look forward and see where life will take you now. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying forget what you used to have, but look at what life has given you now. ^^
It'll all work out fine.
You still have a way to keep in contact with your friends right? That could also help.

I don't know how long you've been there but time heals all wounds. I'be been to Oz and it's absulotely wonderful, but I also have a lot of family there. So I could see how you would feel alone. Is it just you and your boyfriend there or does he have some friends? Maybe you two should get out and have a go at the night life there. Maybe you would meet some people. Are you "religious". Have a visit to some churches, once you've found one, get involved. You'd be suprised at how many friends you can make at church. If you're in the Brisbane area, check out Dunamas Life (I think that's the full name) Or maybe you should go back home for a holiday.





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