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Question: well lets say theres a girl.
During her chilhood her parents used to abuse her. Her mom and dad would fight everyday and eventualy her mom cheated on her dad and left the family for three months and came back because she became poor. When that girl was 10 she was sexually abused by the father of the boy her grandma used to babysit. These incidents left deep scarrs in her life. As she grows up she becomes more of a disturbed person than ever.Now she's a senior in middle school. She cuts herself sometimes when she gets into big fights with her family or when her younger fat brotehr beats the hell out of her. She's bulimic (5'5 120lbs) She doesnt know how ta cope with life so she just tunes all the problems out and simply listens to her iPod. She goes to the library and reads all the time about monsters especially vampires. She's always under house arrest because her mom doesnt let her go anywhere .Straight from school she's either at the library or at home.Umm so i was just wondering


Answers: well lets say theres a girl.
During her chilhood her parents used to abuse her. Her mom and dad would fight everyday and eventualy her mom cheated on her dad and left the family for three months and came back because she became poor. When that girl was 10 she was sexually abused by the father of the boy her grandma used to babysit. These incidents left deep scarrs in her life. As she grows up she becomes more of a disturbed person than ever.Now she's a senior in middle school. She cuts herself sometimes when she gets into big fights with her family or when her younger fat brotehr beats the hell out of her. She's bulimic (5'5 120lbs) She doesnt know how ta cope with life so she just tunes all the problems out and simply listens to her iPod. She goes to the library and reads all the time about monsters especially vampires. She's always under house arrest because her mom doesnt let her go anywhere .Straight from school she's either at the library or at home.Umm so i was just wondering

I would
1. write all the time about anything
2. talk to a counselor/doctor/psychiatrist about the abuse/cutting/bulimia
3. never ever do drugs or drink (it doesn't sound like this person is suited to handle these things well)
4. stay in the library, and do well in school, because that will be her ticket out.
5. take responsibility for herself as much as she can because people with these sorts of backgrounds usually end up being either extremely strong people or the opposite, sad husks of human beings who consider the entire universe to be against them and can find a way to blame anyone but themselves for whatever unfortunate situation they are in on that particular day. I don't mean this as a negative, just as a warning.
6. do whatever it takes to make it out to the other side
7. don't get tattoos until the age of 24

i'd say sounds like that girl is just a sad kid who needs therapy and some love.
:)

it's you ist it

I guess I would get some therapy.........
It always helps me when I talk to someone who I know will listen and help me.........its very comforting...........

I agree Aubree! This girl also needs to find something that makes her happy, and not things to make people wonder if she is wierd! She needs to find herself!

I honestly don't know how to answer you. I'm in the same boat almost, just without the abuse. The only thing I would say is pray, it's the only thing keeping me alive. Btw Edward Cullen rocks! sorry, anyways talk to a counsler, or at least that's what everyone on this site seems to say. :) Keep you chin up.

i was also abused at an early age only by my father who was a mean drunk, i started cutting, it helped sadly enough, music helped too, counciling didn't help me it pissed me off even more, encourage her to be creative eg draw, write and discuss the possibilities of telling someone about her abuse to get her out of there,
otherwise just be there for her, help and support her.
if you push to much she will push you away and if you dont care enough she wont care about you either

EDIT also suggest self defence classes or karate, anything to help divert her anger from innocent people and help protect herself,

EDIT anti depressants too will help, i myself am on zoloft and my sister is on luvox, so get her to see a doctor for them

Is this person you Mrs. Cullen?
First) I'd tell her to change her life around she would have to learn about Jesus. "I know" the impact he can have. Find a good Christian Church that she can connect with usually one that has a lot of activities. Sometimes it takes time to find a church that you can connect with. I went to at least 4 different churches till I found one that connected with me.
Second) Get her into extra curricular activities at school. Debate team, speech team, Band, Sports. anything will be good.

Well i was pretty much that girl... i was sexually abused by my step father and that killed me as i was going through all that. But i mean there is a time when you can only take so much of being taken advantage of... I used to cut myself because i felt lost and i didnt want anyone to know about what he would do. I got pretty bad i have the scars to prove it... I am not trying to make you sad for me or anything like that i am just saying this girl is not the only one... And i just stood up for myself and decided i am not going to ruin my life... I am going to make something of myself and i finally spoke up for myself and he is in jail for child molestation. My mom was understanding enough to believe me and i had alot of suport. I had to go to therapy for a long while i had to get a pepsmear and all that it was horrific. But life is what you make it so she needs to decide how she wants to live her life... She wants to be happy then she has to forgive him or whoever hurt her and live life. BE GREAT!!!

Your talking about yourself arent u.

if you want a different life, it's up to you to change it. i know that things can be difficult, but they are only bigger than you if you let them be. the first step is to talk to the police if that hasn't been done already. next, get in to therapy. you can talk to a counselor at school about getting it or call your local children's services to set something up. i would also get up early tomorrow morning and go to church...god knows you and everything that has happened to you and he loves you UNCONDITIONALLY! you can be saved from torment by giving your life over to Him...if you'd like to know more, email me!


best of luck and Bless You!





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