How to tell your love ones that you are suffering from a chronic sickness?!
Question: Sometimes it's difficult to tell the dearly people in yr life that you are suffering from a a chronic sickness.Truth might be hurt for them,esp, when they knew all this while,that you never hide anything..Will they give encouragements or will they leave you when they found out that you are hiding fr them?Or maybe they might say that you are going to burdenise them with this sickness? Or maybe, they might call u a liar??
Answers: Sometimes it's difficult to tell the dearly people in yr life that you are suffering from a a chronic sickness.Truth might be hurt for them,esp, when they knew all this while,that you never hide anything..Will they give encouragements or will they leave you when they found out that you are hiding fr them?Or maybe they might say that you are going to burdenise them with this sickness? Or maybe, they might call u a liar??
By saying it, with courage from yourself far more than anyone - they ow you all the love they already have and much more because if they do what is supposed from their side, they shall go for more and more of it (love).
Your courage is because sometimes our most closed ones are not so decent, so normal human beings and we all know it. Besides, people like to say they are sensitive to others but not so many walk that saying.
Never doubt that if you don't get full support its their fault and you do have the obligation to choose only the ones that really care for you.
Good luck, I wish everything is going to be ok to you
It is very hard to tell your loved ones you have a chronic illness. The best thing to do is set them down, tell them, then explain about your illness. Let them know if it is contagious and what to expect. They might call you a liar because they won't want to believe it. Time will take care of that.
I think the partener should be the first one to know about it cos he is the closest one to you by heart and soul and no one will care as much as him do about you, this is why they call it partenership. hiding it will not help and will make it more hard and difficult for him and you. if he is already living with you and sharing your life then he has to share your sufferings too.