Will he ditch me, what do i do now. i love him.????????!
Question: okay people i need help. this is pretty embarrising but please don't judge me. i'm a beatiful girl with a great boyfriend and i'll be turning 18 in two weeks. my bf came to visit me but ended up spending the night because his car broke down. we both slept on my bed and when i woke up the next morning i was wet. my sheet was wet. when he woke up he pretended that everything was normal and kiss me goodmorning, telling me how beatiful i look. i didn't expect myself to wet the bed that particular night though, its something that happens but not often, maybe once a week or sometimes once a month. i've went two months without wetting so i thought it was going away until that next. i have spoken to him the next day(yesterday) and he didn't mention anything. i know he know but he wouldn't talk about it. i'm scare he might leave me because of this. we've dating for two months now and i didn't metion it to him because i was scare. i'm so humilated, only God knows.
Answers: okay people i need help. this is pretty embarrising but please don't judge me. i'm a beatiful girl with a great boyfriend and i'll be turning 18 in two weeks. my bf came to visit me but ended up spending the night because his car broke down. we both slept on my bed and when i woke up the next morning i was wet. my sheet was wet. when he woke up he pretended that everything was normal and kiss me goodmorning, telling me how beatiful i look. i didn't expect myself to wet the bed that particular night though, its something that happens but not often, maybe once a week or sometimes once a month. i've went two months without wetting so i thought it was going away until that next. i have spoken to him the next day(yesterday) and he didn't mention anything. i know he know but he wouldn't talk about it. i'm scare he might leave me because of this. we've dating for two months now and i didn't metion it to him because i was scare. i'm so humilated, only God knows.
If he brings it up - whatever you do - DO NOT LIE TO HIM.....
He cares enough to know that you're embarrassed and don't want to talk about it...
But I would suggest finding out why you do it so you can stop it
If he says something tell him you had a bladder infection and it happens, If your relationship progresses talk to him about your bad bladder. After my son I pee evertime I sneeze or laugh to hard Im contantly running to the bathroom and waking up in the night to go My husband still loves me crappy bladder and all.
if he hasnt said anything and hes fine with you i wouldnt worry about him leaving u. maybe u shud go to the doctors about it tho.
I would see a doctor if you haven't seen one to see if you have an undetected bladder problem. If he really cares about you he won't ditch you.