Hate myself and my life?!
Question: I have anxitey and deppression and due to that food was my only way out..so i ate and ate and then became fat then i got strech marks..witch are ugly plus my teeth have had stains on them and my gums are in bad conditioneven though i brush and rinse and im only 15 and there everything iv tired to lose the weight i have no self estem..but im so ugly why should i..iv had to drop out of school..b/c my anxitey is so bad..i feel stupid and a waste of life im scared im going to be a bum on the street..im have a hard time getting thre highschool..with this online corse im doing....i feel like im 15 stuck in a 70 year olds body..expecaclly cuse my teeth and strech marks..i hate my life..i have little friends..due to im soo shy people thing i speak another language..nothing is good about my personality..i have like no personaly and i anger easy...i just want to die....im no good
Answers: I have anxitey and deppression and due to that food was my only way out..so i ate and ate and then became fat then i got strech marks..witch are ugly plus my teeth have had stains on them and my gums are in bad conditioneven though i brush and rinse and im only 15 and there everything iv tired to lose the weight i have no self estem..but im so ugly why should i..iv had to drop out of school..b/c my anxitey is so bad..i feel stupid and a waste of life im scared im going to be a bum on the street..im have a hard time getting thre highschool..with this online corse im doing....i feel like im 15 stuck in a 70 year olds body..expecaclly cuse my teeth and strech marks..i hate my life..i have little friends..due to im soo shy people thing i speak another language..nothing is good about my personality..i have like no personaly and i anger easy...i just want to die....im no good
Prove everyone wrong and do something about everything you expressed!!!!!!! Your feelings to you are real and the hell with what others think!!!!!!!! Start little by little......do some strecthing exercises at first for like a month and while your doing that for the first month lay off the sweets and potatoes and noodles and stuff like that. Eat fruit........meats and salad or greens and stuff. You'll feel better. Get some cocoa butter creams for the stretch marks......they might not all go away but they will lighten up. Give yourself a facial.........put a warm wet towel on your face and take it off and use a face scrub then rinse with cold water......you'll feel good. Buy some make up......apply light colors.........buy a nice lip gloss..........Do your hair differently.........just keep yourself busy with you!!!! Part of your anxiety has to do with your self esteem........I'm sure when you take this advice and start taking care of yourself you'll feel better. Oh and if you have baking soda around the house brush your teeth and gums with it..........over time it will help with the stains...........buy some whitening toothpast and stuff...................Just take care of yourself..........your 15, you deserve to feel 15!!! Just think by the time your 16 you might lose like 20lbs and your skin will look wonderful just by eating well and cleansing you face properly. Your worth all the time I took to type this up..........I have been in your position.....and now even though I'm chunky.........I have made myself feel beautiful and no one tells me otherwise...........U CAN DO IT!!!!!!! You are important...........email me ok............PLEASE!!! Look at my yahoo 360...........keep in touch sweetie.................please do
You didn't mention if you were male or female........if male........omit the makeup but you can still do everything else and start feeling better about yourself.........work on your inside.....but the outside always helps the inside!!!!!!!!
You can get special creams for the stretch marks, and extra whitening toothpaste for your teeth.
But the most important part is you need to build up your self-esteem. Getting a therapist can be really helpful.
I've been through depression and anxiety, it's not the end of the world, believe me, there is help!
Go out running. itll take your mind off things. and just get teeth whitener im sure its an easy fix. also, try putting lotion on your stretch marks. im sure when you lose a couple pounds, youll start feeling a lot better! also, try talking to someone about your problems. its always good to open up.
Is this a joke? You sound silly. Don't nobody care about your teeth and your stretch marks. Go see a psychiatrist and get some medication, better yet go to Church and get some prayer.
Try to find this movie somewhere
Title: The Secret
I have felt the same way you do, but things can get better, I promise.
Please, call a doctor, or tell someone around you, an adult, a parent, a teacher (email the teacher of your online course if you want to) who can help you call a doctor. Things can seem very bad, but there are people who can help, and there are people very close to you, believe it or not, who want to help and who care about you.
I've felt exactly like you at times, though I know that when you're like this, you feel like your the only person encountering this, and your alone. Many people know how you feel. About 20 million people have your kind of situation just in the US and Canada. Best this is to get a kind of hobby that you enjoy. Don't worry what other people think of you. And do whatever you do best. It's really hard to do these kinds of these when you're like this, but eventually, it'll all get better.
You WILL make it!
Start with seeing a PSYCHIATRIST, and join a gym.
Don't worry about your stretch marks until you reach your ideal weight. Start here and everything else WILL fall into place.
Go get help see a Dr now, I have been fat my whole life, and you are shy because you already expect people to be cruel i understand i was you 15 years ago and i never did find help it took me 15 years of being really stupid to figure things out and if i had found a good Dr back then i would be willing to bet my life would have been better so please get help NOW. you are here for a reason, and the second you start looking at yourself better so will others
I hear ya.....Your "handsome prince" isnt gonna show up.
If you don't take control of yourself....no one else has a miracle cure for you.
Brush your teeth....get a dentist appt. and take a shower.
I have 3 daughters, 2 pairs of boots, 3 CARS and several pairs of underwear older than you!..
You can write me....but you can't......You are 15......Get on the teen sites and chat....I hope it will help you
I know highschool is a hard time for teenagers- especially girls ! You will not be a bum on the street ! You just need to keep on going ! I had to have my finger on my son, no actually my hand, for him to finish ! He just graduated and so will you ! He was friends with everybody but just was burned out on it. Teachers need to somehow make their classes interesting- some do but a lot do not. Why don't you just start taking a walk around the block every day. I know, easy to say but ugh who wants to ! lol But, make yourself. Also, find your niche in life and stick to it ! A good counselor can help you. Do you like drama,singing,yearbook ? I would try to go back to regular school. Online classes are just depressing and you will not meet anybody new ! Start going to the dentist and slowly get your smile back ! It takes awhile but it will be worth it. Do you have anybody to talk to ? Also, if you speak another langauge then that could work for you ! You could get a good job and career ! You don't want to die. Your family would be traumatized. Everybody has something they are really good at. Who knows- Maybe after you graduate you could work as a counselor for teens or something along that field. Work hard to pull yourself so you won't hate yourself or your life. I know you can do it. Then, help somebody else that needs you. It will be worth it. I promise !
James O is right.Somehow find it, the movie is going to be very helpful.After watching it make yourself a focus board.Be positive, You have your whole life ahead of you.I will be praying for you.YOU CAN DO IT!
OMG.. what have you done to him?..lol
why bother.. you're not the only one in this world..ya know
get a life!