Why am i so unlucky?!
Question: i never got what i wanted, i have been unlucky since i can remember, as i kid people ignored me so much. i am not a smart person, education wise i found it so hard to concentrate, when i would open a book to read, i read but i dont remember what i read. i always tried to be good at what i do, but i always failed. even in ove i am very unlucky, me and my girl was going out for about 5 years, now she left me. i dont have a well paid job. over the years i have become a very quiet person. sometimes i wish whats the purpose of my life, and sometimes i wish i was dead. as years are going by my situation is getting worser. i dont know what to do as i have no hopes left.
Answers: i never got what i wanted, i have been unlucky since i can remember, as i kid people ignored me so much. i am not a smart person, education wise i found it so hard to concentrate, when i would open a book to read, i read but i dont remember what i read. i always tried to be good at what i do, but i always failed. even in ove i am very unlucky, me and my girl was going out for about 5 years, now she left me. i dont have a well paid job. over the years i have become a very quiet person. sometimes i wish whats the purpose of my life, and sometimes i wish i was dead. as years are going by my situation is getting worser. i dont know what to do as i have no hopes left.
ahh man, i feel for you, but listen to this, you asked the same question in 3 catagories, people didnt ignor you, they gave you their best advise to make you fell better, and they dont even know you. i know it might not make you feel any better, you didnt tell us all the things that made you feel the way you feel now, but like people said think about the positive things in your life, dont let other people control your feelings, bad things happens every day to people, also good things happen, but as a human we take the bad things in and think about it more than the good things. you are are good at education, may be dont have any qualification like me, but you can read and write! i uess you live in uk, its not the best place, but you could have been in a worser place. think about this! and about your girl, why she left we dont know, but she has her own life, may be she wasnt happy with you, or may be she is a rigth all cow. i dont know. but what ever it is make self feel better, call her up and swear at her, burn her photos and flush it down the toilet, only if your upset and angry and hurt by her, it may make you feel a bit better. or just look on bright side, if you love her and want her to be happy, then she is happy. so dude, dont depress yourself, contact me if you like, i live in london, i will be your mate, not because i feel sorry for you, i would like a friend like you in my life. you are not unlucky my friend, infact you are lucky. so cheer up. have a nice day yeah, and dont do anything i wouldnt do.
just my opinion is because you have attached a stigma to yourself...you think you are unlucky, therefore unlucky things happen to you
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Life Can Be Unfair At Times But Never Give Up Because Something Good Will Happen To You And It Will Be Something Big Like You Will Marry A Model And Have Kids.
Things Are Going To Get Better For You :D
Listen, you are NOT unlucky. That girl just wasn't the one for you. I know it's bloody horrible (my bf of 3 years went of with someone else who is nasty and is now engaged to her, I loved him more then anything and always will but hopefully me and my current boyfriend can work things out as we're going through a rough patch etc) but you gotta just get on with things.
me and my best friend went to an amazing private school for years and now have had to move to a crap school to do 6th form cos we can't afford the fees but we miss our best mates sooo much...
my horse was stolen...
I contracted the illness ME and it is sh!t...
my mum died when I was 14.
my sister is mental and was thrown out last night.
you are not alone, I could go on and on but there's no point. so get up and live life cos it WILL get better, goods things come to those who wait etc...good luck and appreciate the things you do have :D
If it helps I am very unlucky too:( It will get better, you have probs heard this all before, but have you tried to get out and meet people? Join a club in something you are interested in and meet people that way, you may even find soemthing your really good at. Maybe you will meet someone better than your girl friend. Her leaving sounds lie she messed with your self esteem. You'll get your hope back, you could become a Christian? That makes people feel better Hope this helps :D x
sometimes the negative things that happen in our lives make it seem like we are the unluckiest people in the world. what you have to is focus on the POSITIVES in ur life. your first huge positive is the fact that you live in the wealthiest, most opportune country in the world, and that many aspects of ur life (security, health, food, etc.) are pretty much secured as a result, in contrast to war-ravaged countries like afghanistan or starving aids-stricken nations like ethiopia.
one thing you can do is keep a journal everyday of things that you are thankful for. not things in your entire life that you are thankful for, but things from THAT DAY that you are thankful. ("i am thankful that i found a taxi on my first try") you will find that you will go through the day looking for positive things to write down. hope this helps :) keep ur spirits up buddy!
Boy you need some confidence! You only get what you want in life if you try and get off your butt an strive for it.
There are many more people in life that have much less than you and have had worse experiances.
Instead of coming on here whining how unsmart you are why dont you enroll on a course to further your education or even to get you a better job.
Get out and find a new girl or even just go out an have a good time being single.
whats the purpose of life?? Noone knows that we all make our own lifes it is what we make it!
good luck
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