I despise this girl in my class because shes perfect?!
Question: everytime i see her i feel like crap cause me compared to her is like 2-20 im at 2 and shes at 20. shes in my class right now and its pissing me off.
why do i feel so low when this person is around?and how can i stop it without shooting myself?
Answers: everytime i see her i feel like crap cause me compared to her is like 2-20 im at 2 and shes at 20. shes in my class right now and its pissing me off.
why do i feel so low when this person is around?and how can i stop it without shooting myself?
she isn't the problem. the problem is your low self esteem. try to focus on your positive features. everybody has positive and negative. the problem is we usually focus more on the negative. this other girl probably feels she has things that she dilikes too
You can realize that how a person looks is not what matters and that while she may appear perfect there are parts of herself she hates too.
work out more and dont look at her
Dont worry about her, you are probably a far nicer person inside, and people dont always go for looks.
Cheer up.x
Shes got one of those fannies where everything hangs out.
No-one is perfect you see.
Aw! this is normal! I know how you feel. At least she's not flirting with your boyfriend any chance she gets, which happened to me and THAT suckss. I know it does. just try to avoid her as much as possible and focus on your good/positive features. good luck! =]
well my advice is to talk to her become friends with her than you wont feel like crap all the time.This might even bring up your self confidence
hang around with less attractive people, then you will look good by comparison.
Just focus on things that you are better at.
Maybe you are smarter than her. Or maybe you're better at sports than her.
Just keep that in mind when you are around her.
And maybe, have you actually gotten to know her? Maybe she's nice, and if you are friends with her she won't be so bad.
Just talk to her, ask her tips on how she works out, or how she does her hair. She would probably be happy to blabber about stuff like that.
Who knows.
Well just ignore her. I know how you feel, there is a girl in my class who is everything and has everything.
Nice clothes, hair, looks, etc. She has big boobs, which I lack -.- and all the guys talk to her (wonder why..NOT)
one of the answers is very good advice. someone said to be friends with her. thats a great idea. maybe she can help you feel better about yourself by teaching you things such as do your makeup like she does. or carry yourself like she does. whatever it is that makes her seem perfect, maybe she can teach you. If you can't beat 'em, join 'em. ( :
Perfection is illusory.
No one has ever been perfect except for Jesus Christ.
just be youself dont let her get to you.
Human race rule number 1: Nobody is perfect.
In 10 years he will probably be worse off than you. You will grow up being practical about your abilities and limitations and live accordingly, and succeed on your own merits. She will think that her looks will get her by and then end up slacking off, and have nothing later. I saw this with people I went to school with. I met them years later and saw that time had really caught up with them.
I was like that too. I hated a girl in my class because she had EVERYTHING!!! She was skinny, short, all the boys loved her, she got good grades, and was really good at singing and acting. I was so jealous. But then, one time at a girl scout sleepover, she was crying, and I asked her why, and she ended up telling me her whole life story which was FAAAAR from perfect. Just ask yourself. Who would YOU like more. Somebody who's confident, or somebody who lets other people have charge on how they feel about themselves.