IM BEING BULLIED HELP!?!
Question: hi, i got a problem at skool, like nearly all of my year wanna beat the sh+t outta me, i havent been to school since someone told me, i havent done anything wrong, but they wont listen anyway, its just some to beat up innit?
well im not a fighter, but i dont want to make things worse by me fighting back, there is loads of them and i know that they will jump my as soon as they see me!
my mum doesnt know and ive been pretending to be ill to be off skool, ive even got a note from the doc.
anyway, what should i do, take the beating and not fight back and then get them busted, or take a knife and shank them?
PLEASE HELP!
THANK YOU
Answers: hi, i got a problem at skool, like nearly all of my year wanna beat the sh+t outta me, i havent been to school since someone told me, i havent done anything wrong, but they wont listen anyway, its just some to beat up innit?
well im not a fighter, but i dont want to make things worse by me fighting back, there is loads of them and i know that they will jump my as soon as they see me!
my mum doesnt know and ive been pretending to be ill to be off skool, ive even got a note from the doc.
anyway, what should i do, take the beating and not fight back and then get them busted, or take a knife and shank them?
PLEASE HELP!
THANK YOU
i think you should fight back,
you never know you might win
i konw what its like at school, very tough
but you have to hold your head up high and sometimes take a beating! i know its sounds harsh!
good luck anyway?! ;)
Don't carry a weapon. Don't be the fool taking a knife to a gun fight. How will you know who has a gun? And never give a knife to an assailant by throwing it.
Become athletic to become formidable. Watch ultimate fighting on TV for the lessons. Hang out at a Karate school. Go for brown belt level.
If the situation is untenable, always try to leave. And include that point in the story to the cops.
Listen i was bullied when i was at school please go see your teacher. maybe they could give you someone to talk to (they did with me) why should you have to suffer.
Ok taking a knife and shank them or anything is else is bringing a weapon and i know it feels like the best thing to do but that will get yourself into trouble prolly worse than them. So as silly as it is your just goin to have to do one of two things keep doing what your doing and hurting yourself by not goin to school or go back to school and contiue to be bullied. That or you can go to your mom and tell her whats been goin on maybe even have her or yourself go to the school and talk to someone hopefuly they do something about it. Get some people on your side (make some friends) Another thing that really throws bullys off is if your really nice to them and show confidence cuz most bullys have a problem with themself so they make fun of others but if you cant be brought down then its no fun for them
shank them???
why do you want to drop to their level?!!
tell someone
and please stop saying INNIT!!
it's chavish!!
good luck
remember
tell someone
Have you consulted your parents and teachers? First people you should talk to about this is your parents. Your parents can help by putting pressure on the school to keep things on track and keep you safe. This probably won't work out nicely for you because I take it you're a guy and it's feels as if it's grating away your last bit of dignity or something because you can't stand up for yourself. But think of it, if you keep not going to school, you're gonna end up feeling all alone in the world (not even Yahoo! Answers can get you out of that hole there!), and your aspirations will just crumble without the education you should be getting.
I think you should change schools in the end because of the kids at your school or you can ignore them but that's far more difficult than it sounds even with as much courage as you can muster, you can't shield off all of them.
Here's what I would suggest. Talk to your parents and teachers about this, stay home for the time being and ask your teachers for work etc afterschool when everyone else gone home, and if it doesn't work out, go into homeschooling and if those kids really start a punch on you, I would consult someone with higher authority around and give them what they deserve...like some form of punishment.
Good luck. Hope things work out better for you. =]
IT's a cliche, but you have to tell someone. A teacher would be favourite, as they're in a position to actually do something about it.
If anyone does look like attacking you, make it very clear to them that you have no problem with 'being a grass', and will be contacting the police and pressing all possible charges the very moment they are done.
I would talk to your principal and/or your school counselor and tell them what is going on. I would also suggest telling your mom, there are laws in a lot of states against bullying now.
This is a very touchy subject! I feel for you and hope your life gets better. But.........if I were you, I would stand up and show them what your made of, but that is me! If you are not a fighter, go to the administrators and let them know. I know tattle telling is not the best but it will keep you from harm. I just want to cry for you and come and protect you myself, but that is impossible. Please tell your mom! Her job as a mother is to protect you! I have children and I would bend over backwards and probably go beyond that to protect them. I am not strong like I use to be but I am mentally strong and would do anything for them. Please get your parent(s) involved or someone you really do trust! Good Luck!
Tell your mam it wll make things much easier. Then she can do something about it or try moving schools.
Hello,
(ANS) Believe me if you DON'T Fight back the bullying will only continue or get worse. You have to stand up for yourself and fight back. No! matter what anyone else tells you I'm talking from past experience of having been bullied myself when I was at school.
**I thought I was no! fighter either, but one day (even though I was terrified) I was bullied so bad by this one guy. That he got me into a situation were I couldn't escape, I had no other choice, so I got so furious I hit the guy so hard in the face I literally knocked him off his feet, he got a bloody nose and a black eye to match. I can honestly tell you from that day onwards NOBODY!! in the entire school bullied me ever again.
**You wont get any peace & quiet or respect from anyone in your school unless you fight back and hit back literally. The lesson you must learn is how to face your worst fears, to face fighting back, to stand up for yourself. Look you cannot run away from bullies for the rest of your life, nor can anyone else do this for you.
**FORGET ALL THE POLITICAL CORRECTNESS STUFF! and anti bullying policies the bottom line is you have to defend yourself & stand up for yourself its basic self respect were talking about here.
**BULLIES MUST BE STOOD UP TO !! your life will be hell unless you do this.
Ivan
IF you are directly told this and not just hear it as rumor, then I would think about WHY they would want to do this to start with. Try addressing this if you can think of the cause for it.
IF they are just being jerks and picking on you, then try talking to a guidance counselor or a teacher you can confide in. IF they don't help, try taking a self defense course and tell the instructor the problem when you are there. They may give tips on what way is best to confront this situation then.
Missing class is not good. It can hurt your grades and the missed time can make you retake a grade if it becomes alot.
First and foremost, do not use a weapon. That could cause legal trouble for you down the road.
I would be curious as to why someone would want to beat me up, if I were you. Was it something you did or said? Nonetheless, most people get very angry at the initiation of an incident but cool down before long. Whatever is bothering them about you will blow over and can be handled in a way other than fighting.
That said, do not stay home and dodge this bully. He is altering your life which is his goal to begin with. If you stay at home from school, walk opposite of him in the hallway, or any other behavior that alters your normal everyday life, he wins. Don't let that happen. If he does approach you and insists that you fight, then fight. Self-defense is acceptable in any circumstance. Do not lay there and take it - fight back. Let him know that you are not going to stand for it. Win or lose in the fight, he will know that you are not going to back down from him. If you fight back, it will be too much "work" for him to keep picking on you because you fight back.
Get back to school and face the music. Like I said, try to work it out another way first but if it must go to fists, fight back.
There are so many answers, who knows which one will be right for you and your situation. If you're not a fighter one option may be for you to simply take the beating and wear it with pride. A lot of people will disagree. What you have to think of is how do you want to look back on this once it's over.
Running away from it you may feel like a coward and be ashamed of it for the rest of your life (seriously - things like this can stick with you forever). Taking a beating is not something to be proud of, but having the courage and guts to stand there when you know what is coming to you is something you can look back on with pride.
Don't come across arrogant or antagonizing, that'll just make it worse.You only need to be resilient.
Shanking someone is never the answer, you want to hold yourself to standards higher than those around you.
This is of course assuming you're not likely to get your head kicked in. If it's more serious than this then your life and physical well-being are more important. You may even have to think about moving schools. It's not worth dying because a few dozen school kids can't grasp the value of life.
If it was a small group I'd say fight back even if you're destined to lose.
If you think you can handle a fight, focus on the main antagonist, if you can do enough damage to them you may convince other individuals it's not worth picking a fight with you.
I'd love to say there is a win-win solution that doesn't involve some sort of violence. However that is rarely the case.
But for g*d's sake if your life or someone else's is in danger avoid all confrontation.
start going to the gym and boxing classes
wait, you said that there were loads of them.then maybe they are just some wannabe gangsters that bring there whole stupid gang to beat you up beacause if one of them fights you alone they are p#sys and they will want to bring their whole gang so dont be afraid theyre stupid and dont have a life so just ignore them or dont be afraid to threaten them because theyre nothing and are afraid of you and thats why they stay in a group to bother you. so enjoy everything else and dont be afraid to go to school or walk in front of them because you cant be hiding for the rest of your life like that.