Why do i feel so weird at sleepovers?!
Question: it seems like whenever i sleepover at someones house or someone sleeps over at my house even, i start to feel sick and its like i get nervous, like the first day of school nervous, with butterflies and everything, and i feel like i'm gonna throw up, and then i cant go back to sleep and have to go to the bathroom almost every ten minutes when i wake up in the middle of the night. and when i do its almost like diarrea. but it only happens during sleepovers.
and it really bugs me because no-one else has this problem, and they always have so much fun at sleepovers and everything and i cant because it makes me feel horrible.
what is this?? and what should i do?
Answers: it seems like whenever i sleepover at someones house or someone sleeps over at my house even, i start to feel sick and its like i get nervous, like the first day of school nervous, with butterflies and everything, and i feel like i'm gonna throw up, and then i cant go back to sleep and have to go to the bathroom almost every ten minutes when i wake up in the middle of the night. and when i do its almost like diarrea. but it only happens during sleepovers.
and it really bugs me because no-one else has this problem, and they always have so much fun at sleepovers and everything and i cant because it makes me feel horrible.
what is this?? and what should i do?
As you said, you are nervous and u feel anxious. You are not alone though, my sisters friend used to always feel sick at sleepovers and she would end up leaving and going home half way into the night.
A possible cause for this is that you are not as comfortable with the people you are around and you could feel vulnerable to "let down your guard" and go to sleep(subconsciously your body is worried). It is most likely because you do not have complete trust with these people.
Your best bet is to get closer with them and make sure you can trust them. Once you find out they are good friends you will start to find your anxiety will go away.
Live a quiet life .I cant imagine anything more horrible than sleepovers .It as bad as boarding school.People are sheep .Be a lone wolf .