How dou get someone to stop smoking marijuana, without seeming really naggy?!
Question: or, can someone giveme true facts about marijuana good and bad?
to convince him.
i dont know, i just dont want him to hurt himself..
Answers: or, can someone giveme true facts about marijuana good and bad?
to convince him.
i dont know, i just dont want him to hurt himself..
The best way is to DO things with him that he enjoys other than smoking pot. IF your (and his) day is filled with busy-ness then there is no time for sitting and getting high. This sort of rehab takes time, because he feels so satisfied with his j's. If you got the time, then help be his release. If you dont' have the time to help him then mind your own business.
Read a book about marijuana and its use. Criminalization of majiuana in the usa has created a mindset that all users are couch potatoes and memoryless slackers. Facts prove otherwise. If it is disrupting his life, which I have seen, or he is using it to gain friendships (Ihave seen that too) then he is suffering from a chemical dependency that a good friend who has TIME can help. Good luck and make sure your intentions are in the right and just place. Don't be selfish, like if you are jealous of pots place in his life, and that you are not in that place of priority in his life.
Just sit him down and gently say: "The next time I see you smoking dope, I'm calling the police."
You can't they will have to do that, The person MUST realize a need to do it. I know where you stand . We ( My family went through It)
Call the cops
threaten to call the cops
show tough love.
If he is bothered.. tell him he might nt be able to have kids when his older cause of it..
narc on him.
Ive tried with my former spouse nothing worked. maybe one day he'll decide to quit
it reduces sperm count
http://alcoholism.about.com/od/pot/a/eff...
go here, gooo info
sweetheart.. its not a big deal.. i smoked all throughout college and after.. but i kept my priorities straight.. and now i'm ballin out of control.. j/k naw it depends on the person... its no biggie
Just tell him it bothers you and why. Explain that you are concerned but don't expect a miracle. If someone wants to smoke they will and probably nothing you say will change how they feel about it. Good luck!
dont nag,its really not your business if he smokes pot or not.
Explain to him why you don't like him smoking marijuana. Bring up some of the mental risks assiciated with it. Google some facts but don't use anti-drug site because they tend to be biased.
i understand your dilemna, but you have to know that it's not as simple as that
when someone smokes marijuana, they're addicted, and they're past the point wherethey can be simply CONVINCED to stop
you have to tell that person that you really care about him and that he should get help
you should tell him that
that you dont want him to hurt himself
and that when doing this, he is hurting you to
fyi - sometimes you have to be naggy to help someone you love or really care about
get a book of all the people died of smokin
I would just kick him out or you leave. Tell him if he wants to resume the relationship he needs to stop smoking dope. I would give him an ultimatum.
Why would he hurt himself? It's pot, not cocaine. You can't really get people to do things they don't want to do. They need to come to that realization on their own. Good luck.
i had a friend who smoked pot and i disapproved, he told me that he stopped, and he lied. i told him that it was either stop smoking pot or im gone, he stopped after a month or so. i didnt nag, i just cut myself off from him.
that is sad :( ive smoked pot before and I still do (although i live in a country where its legal) but ive seen many lives ruined when i lived in america because of smoke pot.
tell him that pot can ruin his ambition to go out and do things and you dont want to see him lose his future over his habits.
depends on what the relationship is... if its a boyfriend tell him if he doesnt stop its over
just give him the true BAD facts and he will probably get scared and stop.... but make sure to cry a lil bit and make it look like your worried about him and if he cares he will stop if he doesnt leave him unless he is ur husband or sumtin dont leave himm juss have a verbal fight with him lol
Police are the best and ONLY way.
Posession + pos drug test = no more smoking.
lets see: hand cuffs, no job prospects because you have a record, i am leaving you and taking the kids, lung cancer, getting shot, od-ing cuz some idiot has spiked your pot (i saw this happen not pretty) money getting sucked down the lungs (toilett?) CYA
If it bothers you that much just let him know you can't hang out with him when he's high. He might stop, he might not. People are allowed to make choices for themselves - even one's you feel are harmful. I'd love to get everyone to stop eating fast food but I know full well that won't ever happen.
What really annoys me about weed is that people compare it to other harsher drugs.
And in turn, say that it isn't as bad.
It's like comparing a person who steals some clothes to a person who steals a tv...they are both bad, but just because one is worse, doesn't mean it makes the lesser of the two okay.
Marijuana kills off brain cells, damages short term memory and long term use ruins your brain.
You can't force him to quit though
There is a difference between use and abuse. If he is a functioning user, back off, he doesn't tell you to stop getting your hair done because of all the chemicals in it. If he just sits on his backside all day and smokes then you need to help him. Show him how he is wasting his life. Marijuana isn't that bad for you, it is great for your eye sight, stops the onset of Alzheimer's and if you are getting chemo, have a j before hand and you wont feel nauseous after.
For the record I'm not a smoker, just not judgemental of other people's choices.
He won't stop smoking until he wants to quit. You can't make him do anything. In the meantime, it may be wise to distance yourself from this person. Trust me. You don't want to be around when he gets busted!
honestly it isnt that bad, if he is taking care of what needs to be done he is ok he is still aware of what is going on and but if he isnt taking care of what needs to be takin care of let him know that.... or just ask him to slow it down a lil bit... good luck!
hi my fiance smokes everyday ask yourself this has any one ever died?? the answer is noooooooooo
you can vaperize it and you wont breath any tar.
Maybe you should try it . you may like it.
yes you are a nag and controling