Serious question about anal sex...?!
Question: My guy and I have been trying to do it and he can't get it in. Is there a better position we can try or something to help it go in ?
Answers: My guy and I have been trying to do it and he can't get it in. Is there a better position we can try or something to help it go in ?
I find oral sex and eating of my a** then him finger it with lube before putting lube on his penis and my anal opening. Then we typically begin either missionary or doggie with him going VERY slowly and me beathing out as he pushes in. The first 3-4 times it hurt very bad but after that it becomes amazing. Def keep trying.
definately have him use his fingers first, alot of ky jelly and go very slow until you are comfortable.
cmb5283 is basically on the right track. Working at it slowly and using lube and fingers first is the way to go...start with 1 finger, work up to 2 and then 3. Also, the more turned on your are, the easier it will be. If you are tense or stressed, your sphincter will lock up making it difficult to accomplish or even painful.
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