Is this abnormal.. or caused by a history of anything?!
Question: When I have sex I like things to get rough and sometimes painful. for instance i like getting my hair pulled pretty hard, getting bit or other things that cause a bit of pain.. today i have a huge bite mark on me but i didn't realize he was biting that hard. but usually day to day i hate pain and i'm pretty whiny when i do get hurt. for some reason when i'm having sex it seems different. is this abnormal?
Answers: When I have sex I like things to get rough and sometimes painful. for instance i like getting my hair pulled pretty hard, getting bit or other things that cause a bit of pain.. today i have a huge bite mark on me but i didn't realize he was biting that hard. but usually day to day i hate pain and i'm pretty whiny when i do get hurt. for some reason when i'm having sex it seems different. is this abnormal?
It's not that uncommon it is called S&M (sado-masochism).
Masochism is when you have an unconscious need to be submissive & feel pain & have your partner hurt you.
It is considered abnormal & that there is an underlying unconscious reason for your desire to be hurt which is exhibited mostly in sexual behavior.
in can be normal it can also be caulsed by a history of sexual abuse or rape if you think one of those theng have happened to you you should hold of on the rough sex as it can be damageing and seek a saport group or counsolor
no i'm like that too
your just kinky. haha
actaully there is a name for it, saddistic maybe?
i don't know but there is a name for people who like being in pain, but i think that is all the time, not just during sex.
do you like being tied up?
Actualy its not that abnormal. Many people like to push boundries, unconsiously. My wife hates making decisions in regular life, but enjoys total control in bed.