Does sex hurt the st time?!


Question: I know this is like a stupid quiestion but I just want to know before I actually do it..........don't be rude either please =)

~Bree~


Answers: I know this is like a stupid quiestion but I just want to know before I actually do it..........don't be rude either please =)

~Bree~

It doesn't always, but yes it can be uncomfortable. The main problem is that most girls the first time are with relatively inexperienced boys who are not far from their first time. These boys are not involved in getting the girl to be ready and relaxed and lubricated, they are more worried about themselves and getting the deed done. If the boy tries to enter before you are lubricated or before you are ready it will be very uncomfortable even painful. If they work on making it pleasurable for you before they take their pleasure you will both enjoy the experience more.

It can yes.

For me, yeah. I actually quit on him 3 times, and he got blue balls. lol :)

It depends. If you and your lover take your time it shouldn't be too bad. Just minor discomfort as the hymen breaks.

If you've been an active masturbator and have penetrated yourself already it will not be as uncomfortable.

Cheers and have fun! (USE PROTECTION!)

Yes it hurts. It is tolerable pain, and it get's better. Make sure you are with a gentle guy that really care's about you. And pls use protection.

My boyfriend and I had been together for a couple years before I did it for the first time .. I was young -- 9th grade. But we tried to do it a few times, and it hurt too bad, so we stopped .. but after he actually got it all the way in .. it didn't hurt me at all. I think I was just tensing up a whole bunch because I was scared. I've never met someone that it actually hurt really bad the first time. So I don't think you should worry about it. Just relax and let him take charge the first time.

Do not do it, and it will not hurt. Wait until you are married. It can be painful in more than one way if you are not married, and often girls find they are pregnant, and he is in denial. Be safe and do not have any.

hahah....ummm yesss!!
it does...well when the guy places his balls in ur v spot ;)...
yeaa that hurts...poping the cherry..there should be a sound...it does hurt a little. Use a condom though! This avoids having babies! and umm dont want to be the bringer of bad news...but he could have aids :(.....but its like a veryyyy low chance unless ur in africa...yeaaaa =)...Good Luck! And i hope this guy is someone ur very in love with! :) ?

no pain...no gain.... you gotta feel it !!!!





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