I have a smelly question?!
Question: a 'friend' is contantly asking me to look after her kids and dumping them on me all the time she is the most vile and smelliest person i have ever know and yes i am serious she and her 3 kids all smell of mould and damp. when i look after the kids the poor things act like they have never eaten before and the one (youngest) fills his nappy at least twice a day and is a disgusting smell like rotten eggs that makes me wanna heave my question is do i keep looking after the poor sods just to make sure they are fed or make a clean break
and yes social sevices have been called to her many times and none have come to anything even though (and i am not lying) the place has white mould growing on every wall and the place is the worst i have ever seen
what should i do thanx
Answers: a 'friend' is contantly asking me to look after her kids and dumping them on me all the time she is the most vile and smelliest person i have ever know and yes i am serious she and her 3 kids all smell of mould and damp. when i look after the kids the poor things act like they have never eaten before and the one (youngest) fills his nappy at least twice a day and is a disgusting smell like rotten eggs that makes me wanna heave my question is do i keep looking after the poor sods just to make sure they are fed or make a clean break
and yes social sevices have been called to her many times and none have come to anything even though (and i am not lying) the place has white mould growing on every wall and the place is the worst i have ever seen
what should i do thanx
personally i would have to give a serious gob full, tell her she is a stinky twat, her kids ain't your responsibility, she should spend more time at home cleaning insted of dumping her kids on you and spending hours up town shopping for more pointless shite to fill her dirty rotten filth pit, she sound like a dirty *****!!!!
that is soooooo smelly peee u
Get Social again and really push them for this, that is horrible and no kids should have to live with that.
You need to tell her that she needs to clean up her place and her kids too. Buy her soap,sponges,shampoos as a gift.
maybe you should tell off the mom. and what's a nappy?
talk to her about it maybe.. or just come up with some kind of excuse not to watch them
Dont take care of them if you dont want to, social services will come out if they feel the child is in physical harm but dont lie because thats against the law
you need to make a clean brake make new friends
thats really sad . . well , she deffinatly needs a new house.
It would be like a fresh / new start.
Maybe tell her that you think she could get a new house.
Even if its smaall , it'll be more sanitary , and get her organized.
A schedule would do great.
As for the smell ,
after mould is in a house , it has a vile smell and it wont go away ,
the house contributes to the smell & is also dangerous.
I say every now and then , yes , go to the house and make sure they are fed , but the best thing for her to do is get a new start in a new house.
and tell her that its sanitary and for health reasons , to make sure the kids bathe everyday and keep the house clean.
i dont know if this answers your question , but to me , this sounds like what she needs to know.
If you and this person are friends then I think you need to tell him / her to sort their life out! It's not just effecting them but obviously the kids too, if they refuse to change then contact social services again. If they don't like your intervention, then so be it but as an adult in a position to help I think you must try - the kids sound like they deserve better!
Poor you and children, I'd have to move house.
Call social services again. Poopy diapers are a part of life. Do it or don't. It's up to you. They aren't your kids. Your conscience is your problem. Stinkiness is a sign of a poor diet (lots of fried foods make you stinky, so does garlic, though).