How can you build up your self esteem?!
Question: well, i have very low self esteem, and i want to feel good about myself, but i just cant. how can you build up low-self esteem?
ALSO how can you not care what others think about you?
Answers: well, i have very low self esteem, and i want to feel good about myself, but i just cant. how can you build up low-self esteem?
ALSO how can you not care what others think about you?
confidence baby....it is the hottest thing on a person.
if you think your beautiful everyone else will...gurantee it.
oh and a little secret (everyone cares about what other people think) its natural. even if someone says they don't there lieing, actually they are doing it to make themselves look cooler, thus doing to make others think more highly of them. but the important thing is, is to not let others opinoins of you control your life. be your own worst critic and let any improvements you want to make to yourself be of your own will
You could start of by getting some books at the libary on self improvement to increase self esteem and self confidence that will help alot.
As far as worrying about what other people think of you...Well if you dont have respect for them,Why respect what they think.Ignore them,It`s probably the 1st step in propelling yourself above them. good luck
Working out and doing things to better youself. Once you start spending more time with youself and doing more activitys you will begin to know and like yourself more. You can try anything you enjoy weither it be arts, dance, outdoors stuff or any kind of class or activity. And I also dont think we as humans can not care what other people think, its just part of life but I think working on the 1st part will naturally help with that & you feeling better.
Being around ppl who bring out the best in you is great also.
Perhaps you could join a Toastmasters Group.
With improved confidence and better presentation skills you will be more successful, relaxed and happy in the world.
There are some great tips in this article:
http://www.informativepost.com/2008/03/2...
have a look