I have really really bad confidence and would like to change this...?!


Question: I have really really bad confidence and would like to change this!.!.!.!?
I havn't had my hair done in ages! So i am going to get it coloured and cut this week to try and make my confidence better!. I'm 112lbs and 5ft2/3 and 15 years old!. I have never worn a bikini in my life because i am so scared! I shake when i think of interviews and I get very shy around some people!. I don't like my looks but I'd love to be confident!
I've never had a boyfriend, which dosen't help as all of my friends have one!. Like ALL of them!. Has anyone got any good tips to raise self-esteem and all that!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
i am a girl despite the pic and i know what you mean in a way cuz only one girl in my class is my friend
anyways if only you think u r not pretty then just forgett that i didn't but others did and i got more confident u dont have a boyfriend!? So what it doesn't mean anything if u haven't liked any 1 than thats natural and ur maturing later than ur friends if u have and u haven't asked some guy might like u but not tell cuz hes shy it might be hard 2 tell once one of my best friends called jourdain liked me and i had no clue so don't worry about it

o btw the 1st girl 2 answer is right u r who u r and no one is like you ur unique in ur own wayWww@Answer-Health@Com

Most people are nervous to some degree!. Trust in yourself, try to maintain an outward appearance of calm and don't panic!.

Take a course in public speaking (Toastmasters, that kind of thing) - with practice, speaking in front of strangers becomes much easier!.

Regarding a boyfriend, the main thing is not to worry about it!. Heck, you're only 15!. If you want, try to make friends with some guys - maybe take up a hobby which will let you meet them socially!. You'll find someone before long!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

well think of it as being in a "box" no 1 can emotionilly atack you, if they do keep it in the "box" so that tht you feel more cinfident, dint worry about wat you lookline just act hapy n cheery even if your not,
i was unconfident untill i was bassicky forced 2 play drums infront of 18,000 people, i shat my self yes but it was the push over the edge i needed,
try the box thinggy it should work xxxxxWww@Answer-Health@Com

It does not matter what other people think of you!. There is always going to be someone who's better than you, and you can't let that bother you!. You are who you are, and be thankful for that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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