Why do I feel so bad, all the time? Details Inside...?!
Question: Why do I feel so bad, all the time!? Details Inside!.!.!.!?
Lately I've been feeling really horrible, and maybe even depressed, but I'm not sure!. I'm in a competive (cut-throat) high school!. I do have friends there, but nobody really close because I've already had a few people try to stab me in the back!. I only know 2 ppl from school that I can trust!. Many girls have really been horrible, i have no idea why!. My mother says that they are jealous of my looks, but I feel so ugly and I don't think that's possible!.
I feel fat!. My family says that I'm not, and sometimes I start to feel a little bit better about my body, but then that feeling always seems to come back and I'm stuck staring at my body in the mirror and crying!.
I'm really scared about applying to college, too!.
I have never had a boyfriend, and I know that I might be a little too young for that, but I haven't even been asked out on a date, and this makes me feel as though I am ugly or like something is wrong with me!.
I don't want to feel like this!. What should I do!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
I feel fat!. My family says that I'm not, and sometimes I start to feel a little bit better about my body, but then that feeling always seems to come back and I'm stuck staring at my body in the mirror and crying!.
I'm really scared about applying to college, too!.
I have never had a boyfriend, and I know that I might be a little too young for that, but I haven't even been asked out on a date, and this makes me feel as though I am ugly or like something is wrong with me!.
I don't want to feel like this!. What should I do!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
School counselors are supposed to keep things confidential, i suggest talking to one!. If you're not comfortable with your own counselor, go to another one and tell them that!. Depression is nto fun, I suffer from it off and on!. I do the same thing where I start to feel good about my looks, then for whatever reason!.!.!. sometimes none at all, I feel ugly, fat, and horrible all over again!. Talking to people helps!. Seriously, talk to a counselor!. Therapy doesn't mean you're crazy, it means you need to talk to somebody and need some advice!.
Edit: high school sucks!. I was never happy there!. College is entirely different!. I love it!. nobody cares who you were in high school and people are so open and accepting!. The nerdiest kid in high school could be one of the most popular in college!. It's so awesome!. Don't be scared about college because of what happened in high school!. Try it and if you absolutely hate it!.!.!. a semester is only 4 months!. Transfer to another college or take a break!. But to give something that could be the best experience of your life just 4 months!.!.!. it's worth it if it doesn't pan out!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Edit: high school sucks!. I was never happy there!. College is entirely different!. I love it!. nobody cares who you were in high school and people are so open and accepting!. The nerdiest kid in high school could be one of the most popular in college!. It's so awesome!. Don't be scared about college because of what happened in high school!. Try it and if you absolutely hate it!.!.!. a semester is only 4 months!. Transfer to another college or take a break!. But to give something that could be the best experience of your life just 4 months!.!.!. it's worth it if it doesn't pan out!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Have you ever heard the songs of Christina Aguilera - "You are beautiful" and "Hurt"!? If not - do that, and you'll find a lot of answers there!.!.!. Also, never be broken! keep searching! You need to find somebody who really trusts you, and you will trust him/her too!. Believe me, there is always somebody for everone!.!.!. If you have one (who you can trust)!.!.!. I think, more is better, but one is also enough!.!.!.!. Trusing everybody is also not possible and sometimes even dangerous!.!.!. Everywhere (not only at your school) there are people with VERY different characters!.!.!. so everybody must look for his/her type!.!.!.
Every normal person needs somebody to trust (who doesn't do, then he/she just doesn't care of friendship!.!.!. never look for such kind of people! Better not to find than to find a one like them!.!.!.)
But you'll find!
Ignore all stupid unsocial people!.!.!.!.!.!.!. And always be "YOU"!!!
Because only this way you will be satisfied of even ONE person respecting and trusting you as YOU ARE!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Every normal person needs somebody to trust (who doesn't do, then he/she just doesn't care of friendship!.!.!. never look for such kind of people! Better not to find than to find a one like them!.!.!.)
But you'll find!
Ignore all stupid unsocial people!.!.!.!.!.!.!. And always be "YOU"!!!
Because only this way you will be satisfied of even ONE person respecting and trusting you as YOU ARE!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm in high school too!. i feel the exact same way a lot of the time!.
it's really common to feel that way!. and although it may be hard to accept i think you are depressed!. it's nothing to be ashamed of!. what i think you need to do is talk about it with your family and your 2 close friends, and ask them to help you get your attitude back on track!. maybe see a guidence counselor about a plan on what you can do to boost your energy and happiness and the things you feel need to be brought under control or whatever, or a therapist would work too ( i know nobody wants to go to them but they do work!.) after you set a plan (if you set a plan) time will handle itself and most likley eventually you will be back to your normal self, a happy active teenager!. if not, there are always alternative medicines that will help!.
feel better, it's tough but you'll make it!. :-)
xoxoWww@Answer-Health@Com
it's really common to feel that way!. and although it may be hard to accept i think you are depressed!. it's nothing to be ashamed of!. what i think you need to do is talk about it with your family and your 2 close friends, and ask them to help you get your attitude back on track!. maybe see a guidence counselor about a plan on what you can do to boost your energy and happiness and the things you feel need to be brought under control or whatever, or a therapist would work too ( i know nobody wants to go to them but they do work!.) after you set a plan (if you set a plan) time will handle itself and most likley eventually you will be back to your normal self, a happy active teenager!. if not, there are always alternative medicines that will help!.
feel better, it's tough but you'll make it!. :-)
xoxoWww@Answer-Health@Com