My daughter needs help and advice.?!
Question: My daughter needs help and advice!.!?
In the last two years my daughter has had a terrible time!. She was diagnosed with MS!. She didn't let it get her down!. Then 18 months ago I had a brain haemorrhage!. I stayed in her home and she helped me get back to health!.
Her 10 year marriage wasn't that brilliant as she was desperate for a child (she's now 38)!. Then last November she found out that her father had been taken into hospital due to alcohol abuse!. We hadn't seen him for 2 years as he'd moved and hadn't given us his new address!. She and my son managed to get him into a nursing home!. At Christmas time she was diagnosed with cancer! On her first day of chemo her husband said he didn't want a sick wife and was therefore leaving her!
Her father died in February!. She is at the end of her tether and her doctor sent her to a psychologist who said that she had too many problems going on in her life and they were unable to help her!. She should keep on chatting to her family!. There are only 4 of us and she needs help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Her 10 year marriage wasn't that brilliant as she was desperate for a child (she's now 38)!. Then last November she found out that her father had been taken into hospital due to alcohol abuse!. We hadn't seen him for 2 years as he'd moved and hadn't given us his new address!. She and my son managed to get him into a nursing home!. At Christmas time she was diagnosed with cancer! On her first day of chemo her husband said he didn't want a sick wife and was therefore leaving her!
Her father died in February!. She is at the end of her tether and her doctor sent her to a psychologist who said that she had too many problems going on in her life and they were unable to help her!. She should keep on chatting to her family!. There are only 4 of us and she needs help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
You need to to take her back to her doctor and ask him to refer her to another professional hun, it was very unprofessional for the psychologist to say that they couldnt help her!.
There may only be 4 of you in your family but every little helps, a hug from mum and a cuppa with her too can do wonders!. ;)
I know she doesnt know me, but sometimes its easier to speak to some you dont know so if she wants to email me then she can as I'll always be here hun, and the same goes for you, if you ever need a friend then I'm there!.
Take care and good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com
There may only be 4 of you in your family but every little helps, a hug from mum and a cuppa with her too can do wonders!. ;)
I know she doesnt know me, but sometimes its easier to speak to some you dont know so if she wants to email me then she can as I'll always be here hun, and the same goes for you, if you ever need a friend then I'm there!.
Take care and good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com
Wow, that is a lot! And if that male she was married to for 10 years doesn't have the guts to stand by her when she needs help, she's better off without him!.
By all means, find support groups, and find a COMPETENT psychologist: The last thing she needs is a self-righteous twit trying to bring her down any further when none of the things going wrong are her fault!.
Good luck, and many prayers for both of you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
By all means, find support groups, and find a COMPETENT psychologist: The last thing she needs is a self-righteous twit trying to bring her down any further when none of the things going wrong are her fault!.
Good luck, and many prayers for both of you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hi
My Better half said your daughters husband is a coward and an Idiot
There will be someone out there who would love your
daughter for what she is and not what she was
I suggest your daughter asks her doctor for a referral to another psychologist
as the one that she saw was not up to the job
We wish you all the luck in the world
Tell your daughter to think positive
there is light at the end of that tunnel
Thinking of you both
best wishesWww@Answer-Health@Com
My Better half said your daughters husband is a coward and an Idiot
There will be someone out there who would love your
daughter for what she is and not what she was
I suggest your daughter asks her doctor for a referral to another psychologist
as the one that she saw was not up to the job
We wish you all the luck in the world
Tell your daughter to think positive
there is light at the end of that tunnel
Thinking of you both
best wishesWww@Answer-Health@Com
That psychologist is a disgrace, he ought to be reported!. Try and find another who is a little more sympathetic,the poor lass needs comfort not criticism!.Or even a local health visitor can maybe help you find someone suitable for her to chat too, also SamaritansWww@Answer-Health@Com
She needs to go to a psychiatrist, and be referred to a therapist!. Noone should be rejected from talk therapy!. DBT is a great form of therapy!. You could google it to see if it exists in your area!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Whoever this "psychologist" was is incredibly unprofessional and useless!. I would consider putting in a complaint against them, and seek advice from another professional with a good background and standing!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
WoW thats horrible!.!. she should join a support group and maybe go to church more and get involved there!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Maybe she should keep trying different psychologists till she finds one that will help her!.!.!.but!.!.!.!.When I was younger I also suffered from depression, when I told my doctor everything that was going on in my life he said I had every right to be depressed!. It's those who are depressed for no reason that really need the help I suppose!. But in the end talking to my family, my friends and just spending time trying to sort my head out got me through it and I'm glad I was able to without medication!.
Your daughter has been through a really crap time lately and although it will take a while, she will get through it as long as she has the support of her friends and familyWww@Answer-Health@Com
Your daughter has been through a really crap time lately and although it will take a while, she will get through it as long as she has the support of her friends and familyWww@Answer-Health@Com
I wholeheartedly recommend the books Emotional clearing by John Ruskan, and Women who love too much by Robin Norwood!.
Your daughter need to learn how to focus on herself, find inner peace and accept things she can not change!. The way out of suffering is accepting suffering and learning from it!. All pain stops when lesson is learned!.
The most harmful way of thinking is: why me!? why is God doing that to me!? I have done so much for them and look how selfish and ungrateful they are!.!.!.!.
Your daughter needs some spiritual counseling, someone to teach her meditation, healing and accepting!.!.!.
Perhaps some sort of a course or group support!.!.!.!.
You can help her by being OK yourself!. Don't need her!.!.!. Allow her to focus on her life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Your daughter need to learn how to focus on herself, find inner peace and accept things she can not change!. The way out of suffering is accepting suffering and learning from it!. All pain stops when lesson is learned!.
The most harmful way of thinking is: why me!? why is God doing that to me!? I have done so much for them and look how selfish and ungrateful they are!.!.!.!.
Your daughter needs some spiritual counseling, someone to teach her meditation, healing and accepting!.!.!.
Perhaps some sort of a course or group support!.!.!.!.
You can help her by being OK yourself!. Don't need her!.!.!. Allow her to focus on her life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Oh my what a terrible story, maybe she needs to speak to a grief counsellor, or physiologist, someone who can help her, just someone else to talk to and be a supportive person, her hubby obviously wasn't worth it and didn't love her if he could just leave her like that, has anyone spoken 2 him and asked him why he just left her like that and didn't support her, i think with counselling and support groups she will feel better, its hard when you don't have many friends 2 talk to, i no cos i don't have many friends, but tell her my famous line, keep smiling someone somewhere is worse off than you , best of luckWww@Answer-Health@Com
See if there are any support groups in her area for any of ther problems even if there is ony a MS support group it may help her mental state, as for the husband divorce him and take him for everything she is entitled to!. Also there ara normally cancer support groups run by the hospital or a local charity so she should ask about them!. As for the pscholist speak to her doctor and report this so called helper and try get them struck off whatever list they are on!. I would also consider naming and shaming them in the press as this is just not on!.Www@Answer-Health@Com