Should i be mad???!

Question: Should i be mad!?!?!?
Okay ive been with my boyfriend for a few years!. Hes never had a serious relationship before, or anything that even lasted more than a couple months!. We are in our mid 20's and serious!. Never cheated, everything is really good!. But last time i was at his place, on his computer, i was looking at his pictures while he was gone doing stuff because i was bored!. There was a random pic folder which had a couple of pics from when we first started dating of me, but also like 2 of his ex g/f (nothing trashy, just reg pics) andddd a pic of this girl that i know he slept with when he was younger, making out with another girl!?!? I mean, i dont care he had them before but should i get mad he still has them!? Esp since he has gotten a new computer since all of them, so he obv transferred the pics over!? I noticed this all months ago but didnt say anything bc i wasnt sure if he would be mad i was even looking through his pics!.!.!. i didnt know id find that though! Its bothering me now though, what do i doWww@Answer-Health@Com

I think that the next chance you get you should delete all those pics off his computer, make sure you also delete them from the recycling bin as well!. Then if he asks you which I am sure he won't you can tell him that you found them and that he did not need them anymore!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Respect has nothing to do with it!. You just want it to be about respect because that sounds better than jealousy!.

Your question is!.!.!.should I be mad!? The real question is should I be jealous!. The answer is no, and you need to move on!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

maybe you should move on and forget about the pics!.
if you trust him you shouldn't worry!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Lillyanswer, just play it cool and when the next time he complains about you talking with male friends (school chums or family relatives) politely refer to him having interests in his girl friends!. Then ask if it isn't true!. The answer you get will tell you where he comes from!. A denial tells you he can and will lie about it, a truth will show he is seriously intending to be your love interest only!. Forget about the two girls doing things together it is human nature and has nothing to do with your relationship!.

you don't have to be mad, but be reasonable!. If he just throws things belonging to your one and only ex for you, then he should be doing the same with those pictures!. IF he really was honest and everything is great you should give subtle hints about it and see if he gives anything away!. If he doesn't I think you should go have a talk with him!. The worst that can happen is deceiving!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It seems he might have threw out your ex boyfriend stuff because the guy had treated you bad!.

I had a crummy bf once and was happy to be rid of his junk!

If you have to ask if you should get mad about the photos!.!. I say no!. a couple of snaps is nothing to cause a bad vibe over!. You seem to be a level headed gal and it is a sign of strength when a lady doesn't allow such petty stuff to get under her skin!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

If you care about him and he cares about you why do you even care about some pictures he has on his computer!?If you've been together for couple of years sounds like it's a serious relationship for both of you!. I think you should rather focus on the future rather than let some minor thing from the past come between you!. And you know something: the past is gone anyway so why even care!?!.!.!.You two are the present an the future if you can build it up!.Just value what you have and if it bothers you, you should be open with him and ask about it!.Honesty is very important in every relationship
Good luck to both of youWww@Answer-Health@Com

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