Will I find a right guy or am I being irrational virgin?!


Question: Will I find a right guy or am I being irrational virgin!?
I just turned 28 and i'm still a virgin, female!. I have very little dating experience, it wasn't really stressed in my household!. While most of my friends were out getting laid and getting drunk (I got drunk sometimes though), I choose to study and get two college degrees etc!. I'm not ugly, weird or some type of religious freak -- just inexperienced with males!. I had 2 opportunities to have sex with 2 different guys in high school but chose not to because it didn't "feel right!." I know about myself that I get attached to people easily, emotionally invested!. Obviously husbands do cheat on wives, but I think it's more stable for me than a bf i sleep with who ends up leaving me!. So I want to wait to have sex until I'm married, since i waited this long!. My friends say this is a dead end becuz no guy is gonna propose to a girl he hasn't slept with!. Sigh!. I would consider do oral if the relationship was long term enough!. Is there guy out there for me!? One male friend suggest I put myself!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
your doing fine!.!.!.its very honorable to be a virgin and to stay
that way until married!.!.!.!.don't give in to worldly beliefs and
keep true to your convictions!.!.!.!.trust me sex before marriage
makes thing worse not better!.!.!.

that said!.!.you might try the old fashioned way of asking your peers to find you a future hubby!. ask OLDER women too help
you tell them all you want in a fellow!.

and be realistic no man will ever be 100% of what you want
and if he is!.!.something is wrong!.!.!.you need to make some
compromises along the way to finding the "right" guy!.

generally true love finds you when your NOT looking for it!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I commend you!

Don't kick yourself!.
Just don't throw it out there for the "Player" type dude so he can put another notch on his bedpost!.

If you find a guy that you do get into a committed relationship, then maybe then its time to consider giving up what you feel comfortable doing!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Just keep waiting there's someone for everyone!. I am 14 and I freak out about getting married already!. I want to get married young like my mom did (18)!. Don't stress too much!. Someone wil come when you stop freaking!.

p!.s!. i like how you are waiting to get married before you have sex!. don't give in!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Yes, You will Find One!. I am 24 and My Bf who is 26 !. He proposed me only for one reason!.!. that i was Virgin!. He loves me like a hell!. He cares for me alot!. I am Happy for what I did, when others say its foolishness!.

No Pain , No gain Dear!.

You will Find One!. For Sure!. Believe meWww@Answer-Health@Com

I'm 53 and divorced, and recently became involved with a guy who was 46 and still a virgin!. No, he isn't a total loser or anything, just on the shy side!.And even though you'd think most guys would jump at the chance, he wanted to wait till he felt right about it and I respected that!. When we finally did, I knew that I was really special to him, and now we're getting married!. You might have to be a little patient and look a little harder, but there's someone out there who will be thrilled that you waited for him, and believe me, you'll know when it's the right guy! Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Of course there are guys for you!. I think it being a virgin until married is a goo thing which displays self control and the ability to stand up to peer pressure, not to mention smart for your health!. if you want to find some guys looking for girls who are virgins, this may sound weird, but check out a church or too!. Not everyone who attends a church is a "religious freak" and they can be nice guys looking for an attractive woman who hasn't slept with a bunch of guys!. Good luck with everything, hope this helps you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Your never too old for love!. I think it sounds like you have a very good idea of who you are and what works for you!. You will find the right person, he's out there!. Just continue being yourself!. You may need to try harder to meet more men- go out on dates, join an online dating service, go to your church's single's events, etc!.!.!. Sex isn't such a big deal, certainly not worth sleeping with boyfriends to see if one of them will marry you!. And if you do find the right guy, you might find that you don't care to wait for marriage anymore!. And that's fine, too!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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