What is it that makes girls think its bad to talk about masturbating?!


Question: What is it that makes girls think its bad to talk about masturbating!?
Whats so nasty or wrong about exploring your body and enjoying yourself!? in general girls are the only ones who shy away from talking about it, and guys are much more open!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
You can thank a TOTALLY male-dominated society for this!.

Women are supposed to be completely pristine!. They're not supposed to urinate, defecate , sweat, get angry, menstruate, salivate or fart!. But they ARE supposed to be hot sexy sluts in the bedroom!.

In some tribes in Africa -- even to this day -- menstruation is shunned, and a woman who handles food while menstruating can be stoned to death!. Furthermore, many tribes demand that the women stay isolated in huts for the duration of their menses with NO outside contact!

In Japan, there is a burgeoning water shortage because women are SO completely embarrassed by the sound of their own urine that they CONSTANTLY flush the toilets while they go to disguise the sound!

THAT is why masturbation is NOT talked about by girls!. Because they've been told all their lives it's dirty and it makes them slutty, and it's a sin and they'll go to hell for gaining pleasure, blah, blah, blah, blah!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

A difference between girls and guys in this regard is that the female body does not manufacture and store increasing supplies of semen which the male body does, and which the male body much regulate!.

We need a healthy understanding of our body, of who we are, of what our purpose is!. Self-gratification can be a very selfish, short-sighted event!.

Some other excellent reasons for girls' reticence to discuss the topic:
- healthy modesty;
- respect for themselves and those around them;
- an innate resistance to their body being only a thing!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It's the way that their raised!. Especially if they are religious, many teach them that it's wrong to do this, let alone talk about it!.
many have the notion that
Sex is suppose to be between two people, not by yourself!.

Very limited mentality, but most girls grow out of this later in life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well, women are supposed to be ladies!. Girls really are not as hung up on physical pleasure in a sexual sense as males are, so it isn't a very appealing subject to girls!. I don't know how to explain it completely, but I do understand why they feel that way!. It just seems gross in a way to many people to think about others doing that and then to talk about it also is too much!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Over here it's good old British reserve!.!.!.

In all seriousness though I guess it has a lot to do with how if a girl sleeps with 3 guys within a week shes a slut!. If a guy sleeps with 3 girls within a week then he's a stud!. He gets respect and the girl gets chastised!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

What ever happened to manners!? Most girls do not want to talk about intimate things with a guy until she is in a relationship with him unless she is a skank!. Geez!. Quit being a pig and save it to talk about with your buds!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Because girls are supposed to have more manners, and be lady like!. They do all those things, they just don't openely talk about it in public like men do!. Loose lips are just as bad as loose hips!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Girls as opposed to women because of their age and maturity!. Most adults aren't afraid to speak about sex or masturbating but there are some things best left unsaid!. A little class and privacy can go a long way!. =)Www@Answer-Health@Com

Listen man i am not shy if you want to wobble your banana do it instead of saying it cant you men think of having clean minds and wait until you are married!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

ill be damned if i ever told my friend how or when i flogg the dolphin!.!.!.


and besides as far as i knew chicks are much more open about it than guys are!.!.!.specially amongst themselves!.!.!.

thats just my experienceWww@Answer-Health@Com

Not sure :]

Probably because it's not like in the media that much :P

Like most teen movies and that are about lads masturbating - not so much girls :] xxWww@Answer-Health@Com

I think you need to find the right women, cause the ones I know don't mind talking about it, at the appropriate time of course!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW jeez!. ugh!. i know i'm proving you r piont but what the hell is wrong with you!?!!?!!?!!?!!?!!?!!?!!?! YUCK!. FREAKIN NASTY u probably think it's fine to moleste kids too!!! jeezWww@Answer-Health@Com

Nothing is wrong with it, it's just embarrassing and very personal!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

The same reason girls dont talk about or initiate sex (usually)!.

It's a societal taboo I guess!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I'm a girl and I have no problem whatsoever talking about masturbating!. It's normal, it's fun, so why not!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

Because girls are supposed to be "ladies"!.!.!.!.I guess!.

I talk about it all of the time!.!.!.!.I see nothing wrong with it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Ahhh!Masturbation!My ears!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Do guys talk about it!? Whats the dialogue--"I was watching some PPV porn on my couch and boy was I hard, I've never seen my *** shoot so far!." When do you talk about masturbation!?!?!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

I don't know, but I love the ones that aren't ashamed to!. God bless ya!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I guess because girls are more private!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Is it even worth talking about is the question!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

theres nothing wrong in shuffling the deckWww@Answer-Health@Com

ill be be lady in the streets but a freak in the sheets !.!.!. there should be no shame in it!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Because if you have a grilfriend it make her seem like she not doing any thing to your needsWww@Answer-Health@Com

I don't think it's bad!
Let's talk!Www@Answer-Health@Com

girls are soft!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

not all girls feel that wayWww@Answer-Health@Com

because its dark!.!.!.and stinkyWww@Answer-Health@Com

LOL IM DOING IT RIHGT NOWWww@Answer-Health@Com





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