Why do i go red so much?!?!
Question: Why do i go red so much!?!!?
Im 15, and i have work experience in November!. I was told the other day that i have the work placement, for what i chose!. Today, i had to go introduce myself to the manager of the shop and shes really nice but when she started asking me questions, i kept blushing so much, i wasnt even embarrased and she was asking me simple questions!.
It really affects my confidence and my shyness!!.!. but im trying to build up my confidence at the moment, but its so annoying! even when im talking to a mate, i just go bright red for some unknown reason (im pale skinned, so its worse!) and it doesnt help when they say "omg why have you gone bright red" because it doesnt help, and i know it might sound a bit pathetic, but it makes me so angry! because i cant just be a nomal confident person without blushing for no reason!. I have been keeping eye contact for longer, i tried it today, but it didnt help!. Does anyone know what else i can do to build up my confidence!? (Sorry its so long and doesnt make sense)Www@Answer-Health@Com
It really affects my confidence and my shyness!!.!. but im trying to build up my confidence at the moment, but its so annoying! even when im talking to a mate, i just go bright red for some unknown reason (im pale skinned, so its worse!) and it doesnt help when they say "omg why have you gone bright red" because it doesnt help, and i know it might sound a bit pathetic, but it makes me so angry! because i cant just be a nomal confident person without blushing for no reason!. I have been keeping eye contact for longer, i tried it today, but it didnt help!. Does anyone know what else i can do to build up my confidence!? (Sorry its so long and doesnt make sense)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Chill Honey!
It seems you get a bit conscious/nervous when talking to newer people!. Relax, is what you need to do!. No one at your work place will fire you unless u do something bizzare! If there's a constant worry of not being liked by people u talk to, dont bother!. I think, all you have to at the end of the day is relax and love yourself for what you are!. Even if u blush, that's fine!.!. people will like you for your good traits and not dislike u because u turn red!.
I hope that helps!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It seems you get a bit conscious/nervous when talking to newer people!. Relax, is what you need to do!. No one at your work place will fire you unless u do something bizzare! If there's a constant worry of not being liked by people u talk to, dont bother!. I think, all you have to at the end of the day is relax and love yourself for what you are!. Even if u blush, that's fine!.!. people will like you for your good traits and not dislike u because u turn red!.
I hope that helps!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm the exact same way!. and I hate when people say "you're turning red!!" it just makes you redder and then you want to curl up in a ball! then once I start turning red it makes me even more nervous because the person you're talking to knows your nervous because you're red!. I just try to ignore it and pretend like it's not happening and try to calm myself down!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It is just a case of nerves!. At 15, everyone is nervous but not everyone gets red!. Personally, I think it is an attraction and you should not get angry about it!. Getting mad makes the blushing go a deeper red!. A big smile reduces the redness!.
I have employed many people with the same problem and have found that they make great employees!. Then tend to business, are not late and do not leave early!.
Relax, enjoy your youth, your problem is not a problem!. This will go away when you have more life and work experience!.
Good Luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I have employed many people with the same problem and have found that they make great employees!. Then tend to business, are not late and do not leave early!.
Relax, enjoy your youth, your problem is not a problem!. This will go away when you have more life and work experience!.
Good Luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
i would say because you mite be shy inside but blushing makes it show but it may also be the fact that you my like that person as a friend or wat ever and just cant figure out a way to tell them and it my also be a nerves reaction so the only thing you can probaly do is get over your fear or watever you have and act like your self and be confident that you can get over itWww@Answer-Health@Com
You probably just get nervous dont worry!. Its also something age will take care of, your 15 so dont worry about it, i was that way too at that age!. Now 3 years later that kind of stuff doesnt bother me!. Just look at it as if its normal and look at yourself as a normal person, the shy stuff has got to go!. Look at yourself as the Boss and the boss doesnt get nervous, people look up to him/herWww@Answer-Health@Com
its just a nervous thing obv!. i have problems with eyecontact when i talk to others!. i cant do it as i just feel uncomfortable!. so at least you can do that!. i think that once you get to know more people at work and things you will gain confidence!. when i first started working at 16 i was really quiet and shy but after a while i got to know everyone and i opened up!. now im the total opposite!. its defo a thing that takes time though!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
omg!
i do the same thing!
omg! seruiously!
i have always wondered this too!
hahahahahaaa
like the whole red in the face even though im not embarrased thing!
i get the same thing
confidence boosters!?!?!?!?
uhmmmmermmm
hang with ppl who make you feel good
pretend theres nothing wrong with you teehee
good luck!^^Www@Answer-Health@Com
i do the same thing!
omg! seruiously!
i have always wondered this too!
hahahahahaaa
like the whole red in the face even though im not embarrased thing!
i get the same thing
confidence boosters!?!?!?!?
uhmmmmermmm
hang with ppl who make you feel good
pretend theres nothing wrong with you teehee
good luck!^^Www@Answer-Health@Com
self conciousness is also playing into effect!. if you blush just let it go, i'm sure you could use some sort of mental way of ignoring that blushing, once you're there then bam, blushing shall be gone!. you blush cause your nervous, loosen up!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Just relax, take deep breaths, and just go for it!.
you only live once, everyone makes mistakes!.
so if you go red or say something stupid!.!.!. it doesnt matter! :)
don't worry (Y)
hope you're work experience goes well (L)
xxWww@Answer-Health@Com
you only live once, everyone makes mistakes!.
so if you go red or say something stupid!.!.!. it doesnt matter! :)
don't worry (Y)
hope you're work experience goes well (L)
xxWww@Answer-Health@Com
the reason you go red is because all the blood is rushing to your cheeks!. just imagine everyone naked to boost your confidence , its quite simpleWww@Answer-Health@Com
the same thing happens to me
so i just try to relax when I'm talking to somebody
u should try it
it might workWww@Answer-Health@Com
so i just try to relax when I'm talking to somebody
u should try it
it might workWww@Answer-Health@Com
Just be calm or you could have hot flashes!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
cos your 15 and nice!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Maybe you felt a little nervous!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
My dear I kind of understand what you are trying to say because I have an associate that was or still like that!. I say use to, because we have not seen each other for a few yrs!. now!. All you have to start doing is to have some confidants in your self and stop behaving like that or go and get Some help!. There are placeses you can go and get help like to a shwink or some one like a swink not really a swink and he would hitmotised you and you would get out of this problem!.
Good luck to you!. BY THE WAY DID YOU GET THE JOB!?!?!?!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Good luck to you!. BY THE WAY DID YOU GET THE JOB!?!?!?!.Www@Answer-Health@Com