Scared of life ahead?!
Question: Scared of life ahead!?
i am scared of life ahead my parents were talking about how gas is gonna be so high one day and how food is going up and i am only 16 but still i wanna have a family and children but i am so scared that something huge will happen later on in life and i wont have my mom or dad (wow i know i sound young and like a baby but there my everything) is this some type of disorder lol i guess i am scared of growing up and i know everyone has that feeling but mine is very strong like i think about it alot anyone have any ideas or thoughts (no rude answers i am just a teen needing advice)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
oh man! you just like me! ive have anxiety attacks over it too! the best thing i can tell you is that no matter what happens, there is nothing you can do about it!. live the best life that you can, and worry about what is happening NOW!. there's nothing you can do about the future, and worrying about it doesnt add another day to your life!.
i hope i helped!Www@Answer-Health@Com
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hmm alot of people are thinking about life ahead!. i suggest just living it day by day and don't stress it just makes it worse!. Grown people think the same thing trust me i'm 23 and i sometime think about the same thing i suggest enjoy your teenage years and worry about all that later
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best wishes!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
i'm just trying to get through finals!. worry about one thing at a timeWww@Answer-Health@Com
No problem!. Stop watching TV so much!.
The US is a strong and vibrant country!. We are more resourceful than any other!.
But mostly, you are living in a world that is achieving unbelievable success!. The crime rate is at an all time low, wars are at an all time low in history (yes, wars)!.
Every problem has a solution!. Things always seem scary when your young!. Every generation has been fearful of the future and the problems they were facing!.
It's nothing new!.
The reason for the present problem is due to other countries of the world are now emulating the US!. In the past, millions of people were dying of starvation!.
Now that we have solve most of these problems, we have a few new ones like the price of gas!.
In a few years you will see "fuel" from many sources (which are currently available, but we need a little time to bring it to market!.
Relax and enjoy being 16!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
The US is a strong and vibrant country!. We are more resourceful than any other!.
But mostly, you are living in a world that is achieving unbelievable success!. The crime rate is at an all time low, wars are at an all time low in history (yes, wars)!.
Every problem has a solution!. Things always seem scary when your young!. Every generation has been fearful of the future and the problems they were facing!.
It's nothing new!.
The reason for the present problem is due to other countries of the world are now emulating the US!. In the past, millions of people were dying of starvation!.
Now that we have solve most of these problems, we have a few new ones like the price of gas!.
In a few years you will see "fuel" from many sources (which are currently available, but we need a little time to bring it to market!.
Relax and enjoy being 16!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I grew up in the 1960's when we had duck and cover air raid drills, and "Civil Defense" fall out shelter construction guides, because of fears that nuclear missiles would come crashing down on us at any moment!. If you want to get some insight into those times, rent "Dr!. Strangelove", "Failsafe" and "The Bedford Incident", to name 3 non-documentary films representative of those days!. (Or maybe you should skip them as just too stressful for you in your current mood)!. But whether you view the films or not, do note that the world survived ghose days, even if it still has problems!. I think there are excellent chances that the world will survive beyond your lifetime too!.
At 16, you are indeed in great need of your parents!. They, perhaps even more than you, are aware of their own mortality!. You ought to talk with them about your concerns and hear out what provisions they have made to protect you from the slings and arrows of outrageous fortune!. Hopefully your parents have wills and insurance arrangements that help assure your world won't collapse if something happens to them!. If they are willing to make those plans visible to you, I'm hoping they will increase your level of confidence in proceeding forward into the unknown and unknowable future!.
My expectation is that they are as anxious to be part of your future as you are to have them there in your future!. So encourage them to take good care of themselves, wear seatbelts when in the car, sunscreen when out in the sunlight, don't smoke, eat right and all that good stuff!. That still won't keep them alive forever, but you do what you can!.!.
I have no idea what role religion plays in your life!. If you are religious, you ought to discuss your worries with your minister!. He or she may be able to put things into better perspective in terms of God's eternal plans!. I'm not strongly religious, but I will note that somehow, things have consistently worked out in the long run that the Good Guys win!. Look back through history!. Sure, there are plenty of setbacks and lost battles, but in the long run, haven't things generally worked out!? God's hand on the tiller or just an incredible string of luck!? That's more of an essay topic than I'm going to attempt to address here!. But its an observation that I hope gives you encouragement!.
Instead of being scared of growing up, put some thought into how you can be part of the solution!. Think globally, act locally!. Perhaps you could take up gardening and see how much food you can personally provide for your family!. Or work with your parents to find ways to make your family "greener" than average!. Plant some trees!. ,,,
Now let's all sing: "The sun will come up, tomorrow!. Bet your bottom dollar, that tomorrow, come what may!.!.!." Feel better!? Seriously!. good music can really help my mood so I hope it can help yours!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
At 16, you are indeed in great need of your parents!. They, perhaps even more than you, are aware of their own mortality!. You ought to talk with them about your concerns and hear out what provisions they have made to protect you from the slings and arrows of outrageous fortune!. Hopefully your parents have wills and insurance arrangements that help assure your world won't collapse if something happens to them!. If they are willing to make those plans visible to you, I'm hoping they will increase your level of confidence in proceeding forward into the unknown and unknowable future!.
My expectation is that they are as anxious to be part of your future as you are to have them there in your future!. So encourage them to take good care of themselves, wear seatbelts when in the car, sunscreen when out in the sunlight, don't smoke, eat right and all that good stuff!. That still won't keep them alive forever, but you do what you can!.!.
I have no idea what role religion plays in your life!. If you are religious, you ought to discuss your worries with your minister!. He or she may be able to put things into better perspective in terms of God's eternal plans!. I'm not strongly religious, but I will note that somehow, things have consistently worked out in the long run that the Good Guys win!. Look back through history!. Sure, there are plenty of setbacks and lost battles, but in the long run, haven't things generally worked out!? God's hand on the tiller or just an incredible string of luck!? That's more of an essay topic than I'm going to attempt to address here!. But its an observation that I hope gives you encouragement!.
Instead of being scared of growing up, put some thought into how you can be part of the solution!. Think globally, act locally!. Perhaps you could take up gardening and see how much food you can personally provide for your family!. Or work with your parents to find ways to make your family "greener" than average!. Plant some trees!. ,,,
Now let's all sing: "The sun will come up, tomorrow!. Bet your bottom dollar, that tomorrow, come what may!.!.!." Feel better!? Seriously!. good music can really help my mood so I hope it can help yours!.Www@Answer-Health@Com