Should I just die?!


Question: Should I just die!?
Well, I don't really have a reason to be here, on this earth!.
This is why:

I have no friends,
No one to hang out with,
Everyone, yes parents too, are negetive towards me,
I get the answer 'No' to everything,
I try to help other people and do good things, but nothing good ever comes around to me,
Everyone at school hated me, so i became home schooled,
Now, I cant make any friends at home, so I'm screwed, and I'll never have friends ever again!.
My parents think a $350 four wheeler is 'expensive', and Ive always wanted a four wheeler!.!.
Everyone says they have a worse life than me, and its not true, because no one cares about me at all!.
I never get attention,
or love,
I feel so unwanted,
Whats do I do!?

Please help soon, I cant take it!!
10 points!.!.for answer!.!.
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Answers:
Don't worry so much ! How about a pet!. They love unconditionally and would keep you company!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

im sure everything is fine!. try going to another school and being nice to people usually if you dont have sarcastic remarks it works well!. and i dont know what your parents do or if you have a rich lifestyle but you dont need a four wheeler!. yeah its fun!. but why not downgrade to an i pod or something else!. (by the way you can only do a four wheeler by yourself) get something that many people can do and invite people over! =)Www@Answer-Health@Com

Go out places (mall, movies, etc!.) and make friends!.
tell your parents to leave you alone if theyr'e just gonna be negative towards you!.
dont think anyone owes you anything, even if you do them many favors, because everyone stands alone!.
earn the four wheeler, and if you can't get a job just steal the money!.
eventually your depression will go away!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Everybody has a place in the world so get out there and find yours!. Get a job and buy your own things and if your 2 young just stick at it until you can!. Join clubs and groups that interest you, even a group for people who feel alone and isolated!. You will find friends and people in the same situation as you in these places!. Don't give up, a smile will recieve a smile :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

no you shouldnt just die!

i feel this way every day
!.

you dont deserve to die so no!.

please dont do anything!.

get help from the doctor stay strong!.


im here if you want to talk to!

you can beat these thoughtsWww@Answer-Health@Com

Chat rooms or message boards!.!.!. here's a good one, you should find it entertaining and there are a lot of friendly people on there!.

mydeathspace!.com

go to the forum, register and start talking!Www@Answer-Health@Com

no just go to the hospital and stop crying like a 2 year old! they can help you, print this post out and show it to a doctor!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Join the army!.At least prove your self usefull!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

aw well ill be your friend =]Www@Answer-Health@Com

think about life as a gift!.
so many people are starving or dying all around the world!. You can't give them your life, so your responsibility is to make the most out of the life you have!. I hardly think that not getting a 4 wheeler is any reason to resort to suicide!. situations change all the time, giving up is not going to solve anything!. give it time!. and don't steal anything because that is stupid!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Killing yourself or dying is not the answer here!. If you go and commit suicide, the world isn't going to stop revolving!.!.!.and why give any of your haters or detractors the satisfaction of you taking the "final exit"!?

Screw that!.!.!.

What do you do!? LIVE long enough to be a pain in the side to THEIR 4th Generation lol!. Yep, that's how you get back at the world and your detractors!.!.!.by staying ALIVE!.!.!.and then working hard to become wildly SUCCEESSFUL! Does that work!? Of course, it does! Lots of people who were "nerds" as children and teens are now very rich, famous and successful adults!. Why!? Because they didn't give up on life!.!.!.and they didn't give up on themselves, either!. No, it didnt' happen overnight!.!.!.but it DID happen!

What to do!? Instead of focusing so much on popularity and material things, try finding something you enjoy and then put your heart and soul into it!. For me that was music (playing guitar) but for you it might be something else!.

Also, I sugguest you go back to a regular school (why should anyone have the power to push you out!? you've as much right to be there as anyone ese)!. Once you're back in, then join groups in school, your church if you attend, and in your community!.

The more you spend focusing on others and giving unconditional love, the better the likelihood of eventually receiving that unconditional love in return!. So what if it's the so-called "In" crowd not accepting you!? Trust me, some of those seemingly popular kids are some of the LONELIEST kids in school because they don't know who their true friends are!.!.!.and the really sucky part!? They often feel trapped into keeping up appearances as if they really have their act together!.!.!.

I say it's better to have two or three true friends than lots of sychophants and false friends!.!.!.and it's BEST of all to be your OWN best friend who knows how to enjoy their own company!.!.!.because when all is said and done, the only person you really can count on is yourself!.!.!.so why should you let yourself down!? Begin working on learning to love yourself unconditionally, too!.!.!.and taking good care of yourself both physically and emotionally!.

Also, if you think you may have depression or self-esteem issues, why not visit a school counselor to help you sort some of it out!?

re: the four wheeler!. why not find a job and EARN that 4 wheeler!? Setting a goal for yourself (no matter how small) and achieving it is a good self-esteem builder!

good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

omg!.!. get over yourself!.!.

honestly!.!. no matter how bad you think your life sucks, you're just being an ungrateful spoiled brat!.!. there are millions of people in the world who truly suffer every day, while you whine about not getting a four wheeler!.!. get a job and buy one for yourself :P

love and attention are like everything else!.!. when you give all of what you have you get some in return!.!. but a lot of people will just never give back as much as you give them - so do it because it makes you feel good, not because you expect it in return!.!.
the world really isn't that complicated!.!. positivity really does attract positivity!.!. so just start thinking positive, about everything, and friends and love and everything else you think you're missing out on will come rolling your way!.!.

sitting around feeling sorry for yourself just makes you a bummer, and do you like hanging out with people who depress you!? of course not, no one does!.!. think about what you like about certain people and how you differ from the things you enjoy in other people personalities!.!.

cheer up, realise how freakin lucky you are to have what you have, to have parents even is worth so much more than a chessy four wheeler!.!. so many people will never even have that much!.!.
and believe it or not life will start working out for you before you even know what to do with your happy self ;)Www@Answer-Health@Com

Just keep waiting!. Good things will happen!. Really talk to your parents about how you're feeling and maybe you can figure something to help you make more friends!. I think going back to school would really be the best thing for you!. Im POSITIVE not everyone hated you!.!.!.there might have been a few people, but dont let them get to you! Just ignore them and live your life!. I know it seems really hard at first, but i promise, it's the best thing to do!. Once you start feeling more confident about yourself in the friend area, you will feel more positive and things wont seem so bad!.
I really hope you take this advice!.!.!.it will help!.
Good Luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com

I understand!. I dont really have friends either!. And I feel unwanted a lot of times, especially after a job interview that I dont get the job, because I cant go home and have anyone say to me "Dont worry; its ok!." I guess the one thing I have learned, is that you learn to appreciate what really matters, and you find other things to do to occupy your time!. I really dont know what the solution is, just that you have to keep searching for one, for something better, or at least different!. In time, time passes, and you look back, and you will actually have some happy memories to look back on!. I do!. Happy memories get blended in with all the other daily crap!.

And I dont like it when others say there is always someone worse off!. I just dont like how it would make the other person feel to hear they are being used for some kind of "misery benchmark"!.

Are you old enough to leave home!? Or at least travel!? If you could get some money together, you could get on a bus or train and head to some city where its more sunny, or more trees, or hotter, or colder, or more jobs, and you could explore it!. I have moved around and lived in different cities, and one thing I learned is taht you can be whomever you want to be when you go someplace new, thats not connected to your previous place!. Start acting differently toward people, even if it feels uncomfortable!. They will react to the "new" you, not the old one, and in time, you can gain a different perspective!.

I hope this helps, because I understand what you have written!.
Thanks for sharing it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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