Questions about anal sex...........experienced sincere help only please, sensiti!
Question: Questions about anal sex!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.experienced sincere help only please, sensitive material!?
First off, I just want some real advice from experienced couples/people
I dont want to hear negative comments
If you dont have any real advice for me, please dont respond
ok now to the question
so my husband and i recently discovered the joy of anal sex
!. We just tried again and didnt have as great of an experience as the previous time!. That time was great, we both enjoyed it alot!. My guess is that we were just so eager to reproduce that same feeling that we got ahead of ourselves!.!.!.!.!? I think we may have gone a little faster this time, but I thought since we had already successfully done it, it would be easier/faster!.
So, this past time went haywire soon after starting, felt uncomfortable right off the bat and then started to hurt, and later found out I am bleeding!. I am very disappointed, and my husband was scared he hurt me and was upset as well!.
So i wanted to hear from people with EXPERIENCE that could give some advice as to what possibly went wrong and how to get back on trackWww@Answer-Health@Com
I dont want to hear negative comments
If you dont have any real advice for me, please dont respond
ok now to the question
so my husband and i recently discovered the joy of anal sex
!. We just tried again and didnt have as great of an experience as the previous time!. That time was great, we both enjoyed it alot!. My guess is that we were just so eager to reproduce that same feeling that we got ahead of ourselves!.!.!.!.!? I think we may have gone a little faster this time, but I thought since we had already successfully done it, it would be easier/faster!.
So, this past time went haywire soon after starting, felt uncomfortable right off the bat and then started to hurt, and later found out I am bleeding!. I am very disappointed, and my husband was scared he hurt me and was upset as well!.
So i wanted to hear from people with EXPERIENCE that could give some advice as to what possibly went wrong and how to get back on trackWww@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Thanks for asking!. I know this must have taken some courage on your part to discuss!.
Before you proceed, make sure you feel normal and healed from the past episode!. If you have any further problems resulting from that occasion, or if it just doesn't seem to be getting better, talk to your doctor!.
It's important to note that attitude is by far the most important factor!. If you think you're going to enjoy it, you probably will!. If you think you won't enjoy it, you probably won't!. It sounds like you already have a favorable attitude towards it, and it sounds like it went okay the first time, so I think your chances of resolving this are pretty good!.
The best way to start is to go slowly!. Use plenty of lubricant!. Take your time, and build up to it!. Enthusiasm is good, but it sounds like you need a little more practice before you go from first gear to fifth gear within the space of a few minutes!. Maybe you could try starting with a toy first!. Things will likely get easier with experience!. It doesn't happen overnight!.
Good luck, and I hope things work out well!. Email me if you have any questions!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Before you proceed, make sure you feel normal and healed from the past episode!. If you have any further problems resulting from that occasion, or if it just doesn't seem to be getting better, talk to your doctor!.
It's important to note that attitude is by far the most important factor!. If you think you're going to enjoy it, you probably will!. If you think you won't enjoy it, you probably won't!. It sounds like you already have a favorable attitude towards it, and it sounds like it went okay the first time, so I think your chances of resolving this are pretty good!.
The best way to start is to go slowly!. Use plenty of lubricant!. Take your time, and build up to it!. Enthusiasm is good, but it sounds like you need a little more practice before you go from first gear to fifth gear within the space of a few minutes!. Maybe you could try starting with a toy first!. Things will likely get easier with experience!. It doesn't happen overnight!.
Good luck, and I hope things work out well!. Email me if you have any questions!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I don't think it is a very good idea to do that!.
My mom ripped from front to back during child birth, and the anal muscles can't be put back together the same way!. She has problems holding Stuff in, if you stretch out or whatmay, you may end up having issues in the long run!.
Why don't you get karma sutra books or something!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
My mom ripped from front to back during child birth, and the anal muscles can't be put back together the same way!. She has problems holding Stuff in, if you stretch out or whatmay, you may end up having issues in the long run!.
Why don't you get karma sutra books or something!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
You have to be totally relaxed and lubed in some way before entry!. Any tension on your part will cause pain and discomfort, as will receiving while dry!.
Even after quite a few tries in the past, it still can't be treated as regular sex!. Angle, lube, relaxed muscles, and careful entry are still important to enjoying it!.
Good luck!.!.!.and have fun!!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Even after quite a few tries in the past, it still can't be treated as regular sex!. Angle, lube, relaxed muscles, and careful entry are still important to enjoying it!.
Good luck!.!.!.and have fun!!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
The key is to start slow and use plenty of lubrication; the first thing to do is learn to relax!. This may include a hot bath beforehand, an erotic massage or even just a good workout!. Remember that the sphincter muscles around the anus will not allow things to pass through easily unless you relax and take it slow!. Do not start with something the size of a dildo or penis!. Start with either: your partner's finger or !.!.!.!.!.
One partner should lubricate or place a lubricated condom over his or her finger!. Take the finger and arouse the surface of the anus, perhaps making small circular motions as you go!. Always pay attention to your partner to indicate whether or not he or she feels comfortable!. Slowly attempt to push your finger (or plug) slightly inside the anus!. Do not use force - stop immediately if your partner complains of discomfort!. If it is difficult to enter the anus, you probably need more lubrication!. The first time you try this, the receiver may feel a bit of pain!. Anal sex is not for everyone, and if you feel uncomfortable stop and perhaps try again later!. Think of this process as training for later anal encounters!. Even a finger can provide intense stimulation when it is inserted in the anus!.
Once you have tried penetration with a finger a number of times then you can move towards something that is a bit larger!. First you have to decide on what type of anal stimulation that you enjoy!. Do you enjoy the movement of a finger, the fullness of a anal toy, or the feeling of entry and withdrawal!? You may wish to proceed by being penetrated with your partner's penis or by using an anal toy!. !.
Never shift from anal sex back to vaginal sex without changing condoms!. Feces can end up in the vagina and cause infections!. And please wash your hands with soap and water after handling the dirty condom or you could still spread infectious material!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
One partner should lubricate or place a lubricated condom over his or her finger!. Take the finger and arouse the surface of the anus, perhaps making small circular motions as you go!. Always pay attention to your partner to indicate whether or not he or she feels comfortable!. Slowly attempt to push your finger (or plug) slightly inside the anus!. Do not use force - stop immediately if your partner complains of discomfort!. If it is difficult to enter the anus, you probably need more lubrication!. The first time you try this, the receiver may feel a bit of pain!. Anal sex is not for everyone, and if you feel uncomfortable stop and perhaps try again later!. Think of this process as training for later anal encounters!. Even a finger can provide intense stimulation when it is inserted in the anus!.
Once you have tried penetration with a finger a number of times then you can move towards something that is a bit larger!. First you have to decide on what type of anal stimulation that you enjoy!. Do you enjoy the movement of a finger, the fullness of a anal toy, or the feeling of entry and withdrawal!? You may wish to proceed by being penetrated with your partner's penis or by using an anal toy!. !.
Never shift from anal sex back to vaginal sex without changing condoms!. Feces can end up in the vagina and cause infections!. And please wash your hands with soap and water after handling the dirty condom or you could still spread infectious material!.Www@Answer-Health@Com