Bad High school experiances?!
Question: Bad High school experiances!?
High school really sucked for me!.!.I cant seem to let go of the pain that it caused for me!.
Im now 20 and have clear insecurities that stem for the bad experiances!.
How do I break free from this!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Im now 20 and have clear insecurities that stem for the bad experiances!.
How do I break free from this!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Oh my!.!.!.
I could write a book about this!.
High school was an extremely challenging time for me too!. I am the same age as you and in the last two years have managed to clean up most of the mess that was left behind!. But believe me, I know all about it!.!.!.
This sounds a little strange, but there is a great Tori Amos song to listen to after the abuse of High School!. It is called "Precious Things"!. I would really begin by basically throwing a outright tantrum for yourself with that playing!. I might read the lyrics before hand though!. Actually, music (particularly Tori) really helped me with the healing process afterwards!. This is a very simple little therapy, there's a lot more to it than that!.
I have more advice about purging the experinces and healing the wounds that I would like to give you!. However I must get to bed now (early morning)!. But please feel free to email me for more dicussion on this topic, there is a great deal of old, unpleasant energy that is lurking in your midst and you shouldn't have to carry it's weight around anymore!.
You will heal!. You will move on!. You will free yourself!.
Remember: One step at a time, this is a process!.!.!.
~All the best to you~Www@Answer-Health@Com
I could write a book about this!.
High school was an extremely challenging time for me too!. I am the same age as you and in the last two years have managed to clean up most of the mess that was left behind!. But believe me, I know all about it!.!.!.
This sounds a little strange, but there is a great Tori Amos song to listen to after the abuse of High School!. It is called "Precious Things"!. I would really begin by basically throwing a outright tantrum for yourself with that playing!. I might read the lyrics before hand though!. Actually, music (particularly Tori) really helped me with the healing process afterwards!. This is a very simple little therapy, there's a lot more to it than that!.
I have more advice about purging the experinces and healing the wounds that I would like to give you!. However I must get to bed now (early morning)!. But please feel free to email me for more dicussion on this topic, there is a great deal of old, unpleasant energy that is lurking in your midst and you shouldn't have to carry it's weight around anymore!.
You will heal!. You will move on!. You will free yourself!.
Remember: One step at a time, this is a process!.!.!.
~All the best to you~Www@Answer-Health@Com
You need to remember that when you let these memories control you, you are giving up control of your own life!. You are grown now!. You are in charge and ultimately responsible for the rest of your life!. Make it great, and don't let yourself be a victim!.
I understand the temptation to let go, and blame it on others, but YOU are the one that will suffer the consequences, NOT THEM!!! I have been in your shoes, but life after high school can be great!.
Take control and prove that they can not rule your life!.
IT IS YOUR LIFE, let go of the past and don't live like a victim!!!
If you have lost self esteem due to these incidents, go to your local library or bookstore!. Look in the self help section for books on how to build self esteem and confidence!. You will learn that you are as wonderful as you think you are!. If you think you are unworthy, you will unconsciously make yourself unworthy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I understand the temptation to let go, and blame it on others, but YOU are the one that will suffer the consequences, NOT THEM!!! I have been in your shoes, but life after high school can be great!.
Take control and prove that they can not rule your life!.
IT IS YOUR LIFE, let go of the past and don't live like a victim!!!
If you have lost self esteem due to these incidents, go to your local library or bookstore!. Look in the self help section for books on how to build self esteem and confidence!. You will learn that you are as wonderful as you think you are!. If you think you are unworthy, you will unconsciously make yourself unworthy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Unless you are still in with your same crowd you were in during your high school years!.!.!.just move on!.
Let go of the past and find your future!.
I know that sounds easy!.!.!.but now that I'm 34 and looking back on it!.!.!.and after reunions with my classmates who now don't even match the "stygmas" they did in high school to the adult you are!.!.!.you'll eventually learn, too!.!.!.that it's not what those kids thought of you that makes your future!.!.!.it's what you think of yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Let go of the past and find your future!.
I know that sounds easy!.!.!.but now that I'm 34 and looking back on it!.!.!.and after reunions with my classmates who now don't even match the "stygmas" they did in high school to the adult you are!.!.!.you'll eventually learn, too!.!.!.that it's not what those kids thought of you that makes your future!.!.!.it's what you think of yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
depending on the situation!.!.!.!.get some confidence in yourself! A new look can totally change your attitude!. tips for that!? Get a few new pieces for your wardrobe to shake things up, try a new part in your hair, or a different style of makeup!.
other advice may be to smell the coffee!. You're not in high school anymore!.!.!.insecurities are for all ages, I suppose!. I guess one answer to that again is more confidence!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
other advice may be to smell the coffee!. You're not in high school anymore!.!.!.insecurities are for all ages, I suppose!. I guess one answer to that again is more confidence!.Www@Answer-Health@Com