What can I do, how can i move on after being raped?!


Question: What can I do, how can i move on after being raped!?
Please take this question seriously!. I was raped a few weeks ago buy a couple guys from my highschool, I'm 17!. It's probably my fault, I shouldn't have been walking home in the dark it was stupid!. I am pretty sure that I'm not pregnant i'm on birth control (not because i'm sexually active but because of my period)!. I haven't told anyone because it's embarassing, I do not want everyone i know to know what has happened to me or treat me differently because of it!. I have nightmares all the time, wake up screaming, i want to tell someone but can't get up the courage, how can i move on, stop the nightmares, what do i do now, i feel so alone and scared!. And worse i'll have to see these boys everydau when school starts again, I don't know if i can handle that!. Anyone who has been in this situation or just knows something about rape!.!.!.!.!.!.please help me!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


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DARLING i am sooo sorry for this!. ughh this pisst me off soo badly! how can people be soo evil and ughh sickening how people can be!. you need to report this to the police immediately!. don't let this happen to another young woman that is walking around in the street!. take those jerks off the street tell someone!. no matter what you do it's going to stay in your head!. please i am begging you tell your parents and have them call the police!Www@Answer-Health@Com

I'm so sorry that you had to go through that, but you honestly have to tell someone!. If you don't, it will keep hurting you!.
It's not your fault!. Don't say that, it's those asssholes' fault!. If it really bothers you, you can always change schools, or if you tell the police, they can get those guys expelled and into prison! Tell someone before it's too late, since the police can still probably do a rape test!.
Sorryy!Www@Answer-Health@Com

You need to tell someone! Telling any responsible adult would be better than keeping it to yourself!. If you don't tell anyone then they might rape someone else, and NO ONE deserves to be raped!. It is really embarressing but if you don't tell anyone you will always think about what would've happened if you had told someone, the only way to move on is to talk about it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Sweetie! you need to tell someone and they can get you some help! please take this advice! tell someone and bring your name to justice! and don't you think that this is your fault! Yes you shouldn't have been walking alone in the dark, but that doesn't make it your fault!!! Please Get Help or this will haunt you for the rest of your life!Www@Answer-Health@Com

report this I am so sorry
please report this and get the help you need

What your feeling is self blame and it was not your fault
think of another girl running into those guys
stop them, maybe they will start at rape and then start killing
please charge and nail these creepsWww@Answer-Health@Com

It is definitely not your fault! Despite how difficult it may seem, you really need to tell someone, anyone you trust!. While your by yourself try writing or painting or anything that will help you get out what is bottled up inside!. Try yoga or meditation and just focus on feelings of being safe and at peace!.

Do not worry about when school starts because if anyone bothers you can definitely switch classes or anything to situate yourself farthest away from those horrible individuals!.

Before you go to sleep try listening to music or taking a bath to try and relax and think of all the things you dream of and want to accomplish!.

I'm sure this is difficult, I couldn't imagine how you must feel!.I wish you lots of luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com

You need to find someone that you can open up to and someone that can be there for you!
This is something that should not have happend to and you need to stop blaming yourself
My mother was raped as a teen and she kept it in for years, it messed her up so badly because she kept it inside and felt alone
Please talk to someone, I know its embarassing but keeping it inside will only hurt yourself!. I assure you that it will be worth it!
You also need to get checked out by the dr
Ill be praying for you! I know its hard but be strong and open up to someone that you trust!Www@Answer-Health@Com





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