Why was I born with such a huge body?!

There are advantages to your situation!. First of all you are tall!. Second, there are solutions to the problems you've listed!. These are temporary problems with solutions!.

Fat - this could be solved, just lose weight!. Go on a proven weight loss program!.

Ugly - most guys have a chance to look good!. Get contacts instead of glasses, get acne treatment, lose weight and gain muscle, dress well really well!.

Do you think most "bad" looking guys (lanky, poorly dressed, acne) would still look "bad" if they worked out, dressed well, and got rid of other problems!? What if they were successful and confident at the same time!?

No friends - You can learn how to be social and make friends!.

Worthless - Discover your purpose!. If you know for example, you want to inform and entertain by writing, you could take that sense of purpose and develop it by taking classes at University!. You could develop a sense of self worth if you don't already have it!.

Look man, i believe the words you choose are very important!. If you are moping around saying "people want to me to dissappear" that is the road you are going to go down!.

If you say "i can change my situation and become a social, successful, charismatic person", then what are you going to do!.

1!. sign up for a fitness program or start your own!.
2!. get advice on how to eat and excercise right!.
3!. go out there and find what you like to do and are good at!.
4!. go out there and get advice / buy nice clothes!.
5!. go out there and start conversations with people and learn how to interact with people and make friends!.

So imagine yourself a year from now, you are well dressed, fit, confident, and you have a direction in life!.

how will people feel about you then!?

Now its your choice which words you are going to use!. are you going to keep saying "people want me to dissappear" or are you going to say "i can and will be successful no matter what!?"!.

p!.s!. i am waived of any responsibility for your actions as a result of reading this post!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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6' and 218 pounds is not big by any means!. I don't think your problem is your size, but something else going on in your life!. Please don't end your life, because someday you will be able to see the light at the end of the tunnel!. Please, please see a professional person, or look in the phone book for a religious person to guide you, or call a suicide hot line!. Do something, but don't do anything drastic!. Death is forever, and there are people out there who can help!.!.!.good luck!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

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I am in a situation common to yours!. Being overweight could be caused by genetics or eating habits as a child!. Eat healthy and exercise!.

And if people are acting the way you say they are, they are over reacting!. You could be much, much worse!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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I know how that feels, I'm about around that size too!. I just deal wit it!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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Darlin, you don't sound that big to me!. You are only 19!? Honey, you are so lucky to be 19 years old!. You are still a youngster and you will find that life is a game!. The plan is staying in the game and seeing the outcome!. You are also not worthless but there is a plan for you and you will do something wonderful!. Take the focus off of your looks for now and delve deeper into your soul!. Help another who is less fortunate than you!. There are lots of people out there if you just open your eyes!. You are not crap!. You are only a young man wanting what you think others have and what you think makes THEM happy!. If you only knew they are not happy either but also searching for the golden fleece as you!. Life is like Zelda, you search, have tasks to perform and get rewarded!. Sometimes you slay the bad dude, sometimes you fail, but as Link you keep getting up and going through the motions until you get it right!. The trick and the plan is to keep playing!. Each segment offers something new and wonderful!! The quiters never get the golden sword!. Silly but it's one way to look at it!. Say your thankful prayers each night and your quest will be revealed!. You obviously have a very special plan on earth!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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6 feet tall 218 isn't that big!. Don't be so hard on yourself! I am sure that your family care about you, and that not everyone hates you!. If you are in school, know that things will get better as kids can be judgmental!. Find something that you enjoy doing and you may find some people that will have similar interests to you and then you will find friends!. And please, please don't harm yourself!. You have a lot of life ahead of you!. Just because you are having a hard time now does not mean that you won't have future happiness!. Maybe you should talk to a counselor or someone professional!. I don't know where you are from, but here there are help lines that you can call!. Look in your phone book or look online for crisis lines in your area!. Just for your info, read the following:
Just weeks ago, three American champion giants made the U!.S!. Olympic Track and Field team!. A 280-pound champion of the javelin joined the Canadian Olympic team last week!. A winning 280-pound Arizona State athlete in shot put and discus was selected as the best male athlete of the 2007-8 school year and made the longest throw by any high school athlete in the nation last month!. University of New Mexico

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