Panic attack/asthma during intimacy?!

I have mild asthma that causes my airways to swell and I start to wheeze and I have also developed a panic/anxiety disorder as this came about because the feeling of my breathing being restricted scares me to death!. I already am a fairly nervous person to begin with and am scared to use an inhaler because I've heard they can make you jittery/nervous!. Here the past few months, a lot of times (not all) when my husband and I are intimate together, I feel my airways start to swell, I'm guessing due to the heavy breathing, etc!.!.!.!. When that happens, I start to feel a little panicky and last night I actually got dizzy and felt really swimmy headed, almost as if the room was spinning!. This scares me really bad and it's really not doing anything for my love life!. I mean, my husband understands my problem and he's actually had to stop and ask me if I'm ok!. What can I do to make this stop!? I really really don't want to be on any meds or inhaler, but is that the only way to stop this!? Help!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

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