He cuts and he drink, to stop the pain. help :/?!
Question: He cuts and he drink, to stop the pain!. help :/!?
i need to help him :[
i just don't know how!.
please help me ]:
i don't want to lose him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i just don't know how!.
please help me ]:
i don't want to lose him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Since there isnt much detail in the situation, all i could say is that you need to talk to him!. Tell him that he is the most important person to you, adn that you can see him hurting himself if he doesnt stop!. Tell him that cutting isnt the right way to release pain, even though it seems like its the only way!. Tell him that you will talk to him if he ever needs you!. As for the drinking, tell him what it is doing to him,both on the outside and on the inside!. Research the information and give it to him But most of all!. Let him know that you care about him, and that there are more people who care about him; and that his behavior is scary!. Hope this helps, good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Usually when people cut themselves, they do it to stop whatever emotional pain said person was feeling before!.!.!.
There would be no point in cutting, to block out emotional pain, then drink to block out the physical pain!.!.!.
He might as well have just gotten loaded in the first place!.
Anyway, force him to go to the doctor, to get help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
There would be no point in cutting, to block out emotional pain, then drink to block out the physical pain!.!.!.
He might as well have just gotten loaded in the first place!.
Anyway, force him to go to the doctor, to get help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Cutters and drinkers aren't people to help!. Believe me!. I spent my entire teen years "helping" people!. In the end I learned they need to help themselves!. They are attention starved little brats that prey on peoples emotions!. They want you to seem worried about them, they want you to always ask how they are, they only want people to care about them but they go about it the wrong way!. I know it seems like they're going to "die" or kill themselves by their actions!. But honestly 90% of them won't!. And the 10% that do were very emotionally disturbed and there was nothing you could do for them anyway!. You can be a friend, talk to them, but when they start talking about cutting or drinking just tell them if they don't stop it you will have to leave (or hang up or sign off)!. Don't encourage them, show them you are against what they are doing!. Thats my best advice!. Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
CALL 911 NOW!Www@Answer-Health@Com