I'm feeling a bit stupid about this..!


Question: I'm feeling a bit stupid about this!.!.
So my boyfriend used to be an avid user of coke, mushrooms, and various kinds of painkillers and he has quit all three of those within the course of this last year, mostly before we started dating!. However, he still drinks and smokes weed!.

Now I drink on occasion and smoke cigarettes but have never done weed before!. My boyfriend has never pressured me into trying weed though has offered for me to but I have absolutely no desire to, though I don't think those who do smoke pot are stupid or anything in any way!.

I have reasons for not wanting to do it (like I'm a runner and the less smoke in my lungs the better) but I still feel very pressured to!. There are alot of avid marijuana users in my school and they always look like they have such a good time with it and I can't help but wonder if I'm missing out on something!. My boyfriend tells me I'm not, but I still have this question in the back of my mind!.

When we talk about this subject I get really embarrassed and try to change what we're talking about and even the thought of it makes me really uncomfortable!.
So I guess my question is AM I being stupid for not wanting to do it!? Am I really missing out on something that great or am I being the smarter person!? Should I try it just to experience it atleast once or is that even really worth it!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
I had loads of friends who smoked weed when I was in high school!. I never touched the stuff, mainly because I didn't think twice about being "the good girl"!.
Since I've finished college (the last few months) I've tried the mysterious weed!.!.!.to be honest I didn't notice anything special!. I never got hilariously giddy or anything!. I wasn't impressed!.

I think you're way smarter than everyone else, personally!. I definitely made the right decision by not touching it in my youth!. Seriously, you're definitely doing the right thing!. Don't feel pressurized!. Be effing proud!Www@Answer-Health@Com

If you don't want to smoke pot, then don't!.

It's nice, but not all that brilliant!. You're not missing out on much!.

But your reasoning as to the less smoke in your lungs the better doesn't make sense if you smoke!. It doesn't matter what you smoke, you're still harming your lungs!. Smoking marijuana only does harm to you because you usually smoke it with unfiltered tobacco!. It is the tobacco that is bad for your lungs, not the cannabis!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

Yeah plenty of people have a great time smoking weed, but just forget about them, and forget about everyone here saying that weed is an addiction and if you try it you will become addicted to drugs and die! If you want to smoke it then go ahead, if you don't want to smoke and would rather focus on running then don't smoke!. You can always try it later, but you can't un-try it :DWww@Answer-Health@Com

Dump the boyfriend is my advise!. I don't know your personal experience with him, but after 5 years, I dumped mine, because with the combination of his drinking, and pot smoking, he has become violent towards me!. He is okay, if he only had a few beers, but not with the combination of the two!. Beware, okay!?

For your personal safety, I give you fair warning!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You know how when you smoke a cig after not having one for a while!? You get a slight high!. That is all pot is but the feeling lasts longer and more intensified!.
You shouldn't do if you don't want to!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I say everyone should try it al least once!. but on your own terms when your ready!. seriously if your a runner though it causes the same damage as cigarettes!. but it does have its benefits as well!Www@Answer-Health@Com

No don't do it because you might keep doing it which equals bad running!.Also it is not very lady like!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You are most diffidently not missing out on anything!. Don't do it!. Sticky to your guns girl!.

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it is a drug , it is illegal , that should be enough, just look at how they are when they are on it !.!.!.!.!.!.You still think your missing something !? NO!.!.!.!.!.!.my step brother ate half a tub of country crock that I tossed in the trash because the dog got into it when he was high on weed I gave him a roll of toilet paper and sent him home !. He does not remember it ,he thought he got a bug because he damn near crapped himself to death, but that is just the tip of the ice burg of things he has done high !. So no don't do it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

The only thing I can tell you is that you should only do it only if YOU want to!. You shouldn't feel pressured into by anyone!. The feeling of being "high" is a good feeling, that's why people do it!.!.!.!.!.it can also make you hungry and tired!. It all depends on the particular weed you are smoking!. Some makes you wired, some makes you tired, some gives ya a whole body buzz!.!.!.!.!.it's all different!. You aren't gonna die from smoking pot, but it's not good for your lungs!. Once again, the only one who can make this decision is YOU!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

You are not being stupid about this matter!. In fact, you are not missing out on anything special!. Smoking pot only leads to other drugs!. Drugs are a way for people to hide from real life!. You say you are a runner!. I can tell you that smoking is bad for everyone especially if you are a runner!. You are young now but if you continue to smoke, it's harder to quit!. I know from experience!. You really need to quit smoking now before you get emphysema or worse!. Don't fall for peer pressure!. Be strong in your beliefs and do the right thing!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Marijuana is a drug and it's an addiction!. You already have one killer habit (that could easily kill you before your time), you don't want another!. Personally I would never go with someone who smokes weed!. I hate drugs now!. I use to use them myself!. I had a lot of buddies and I can tell you they are some of the most self centered people I know!. Drug users always think about themselves and how they can get their next HIGH!. It's extremely self absorbent behavior!. Heavy alcohol use is the same thing (only worse)!. Alcoholics have the worst character flaws of any people in the world!. That's why it's so hard for them to quit (drug addicts too) and why treatment is long and tedious!. Failure rate is very high! Because the self absorbency to the drugs, the character flaws, resentment, etc is tremendous!. I quit using 23 years ago (I had one slip in 2001)!. It's like life without drugs or addiction you can see outside of your own s***!. You can care about other people, focus on your responsibilities, and have motivation, being free of mental and psychological crutches!. There is no comparison! My advice is find a clean and sober guy who can see the world with a drug free mind!. But at the very least NEVER USE OR TRY DRUGS!. You will going down a path you may never find your way back from!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

its not all that great ive been smoking pot for about 5 years now yeaah its a thrill at first but it gets boreing and then you wanna try new drugs exspecially if you have a addictve personallity and it leads into a mess your not stupid for not wanting to everyone has a choice and since your a runner not doing it is a perfect reason smokig pot dosent make you cool it makes u happy for a littlee while thenu get tired and wanna eat alot but thts all your choice

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ITS YOUR CHOICE!Www@Answer-Health@Com

From a Law Enforcement officers standpoint!. I would advise you to
highway the boyfriend!. You are dating a stick of human dynamite!.
I don't know what year in school you are!. But I'm sure you have seen
the aftermaths of those who make drugs a career!. If your BF is still
doing TCP!. He is still addicted to drugs!. Get as far away from this
individual as you can!. It is only a matter of time before you fall
prey to his usage of the drug!. And you yourself step up the ladder
and head for the hard drugs!.

I can somewhat tell by your writing this is not what you wish for
yourself!. Quit being an enabler!. Leave this person and find someone
who is not of the chemically addictive personality!. Your BF will
eventually either wind up with possession charges and do jail or
prison time!. If you get caught with him and he is holding, You are
a accessory!. So please for your sake!. Find another BF, and stay
connected to school and not drugs or drug addicts!.

AS a parent are you absolutely out of your mind!. LOL sound familiar!.

Please take the right steps, and leave the situation you are in!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Weed isn't too bad!. It's a good feeling, but definitely not the greatest thing in the world!. From what I read, your probably never gonna get that question out of your head unless you try it!.

I'm not encouraging you to do drugs, but I think that everybody should make their own choices!.!.!.and how do you know what choices to make if you've never tried it!?

My father smokes weed to relieve stress from work!.!.!.!.I think it's fun sometimes but not really my thing!. To answer your questions though,

1!.Your not being stupid for not wanting to do it!.
2!.You never know how good or bad it's gonna be until you've tried it yourself!.
3!. My opinion is that you should try it once!.!.!.if you don't like it just never do it again!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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