Why is she like this!
Question: Why is she like this
my mom won't let me go to my friend's house just cuz he's 20 and in college!.!.!.!.I'm 15 I'm not a baby he's a nice guy what's the big deal!?!? she let us go to the mall and the movies and out to dinner once reluctantly but now she says I can't ever talk to him again why not!?!?!?
And she got all pissed cuz he sent me a letter tellinng me that he loves and cares for me!. and wants to make me feel good !.!.she shouldn't have read it
she even let him pick me up from school so why doesn't she trust me to go to his house
he's one of my only true friends ppl at school don't like me and he makes me feel better when he holds me and talks to me he's really sweet she never understands anything Www@Answer-Health@Com
And she got all pissed cuz he sent me a letter tellinng me that he loves and cares for me!. and wants to make me feel good !.!.she shouldn't have read it
she even let him pick me up from school so why doesn't she trust me to go to his house
he's one of my only true friends ppl at school don't like me and he makes me feel better when he holds me and talks to me he's really sweet she never understands anything Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
honey he is 20 and youre 15!.!.!.most guys at that age only want you for one thing and thats sex!.!.!.he will say whatever and do whatever to get your trust and respect then he will most likely try and get you into bed with him!. your mom knows what she is doing!. she is protecting you while trying to give you SOME adult responsibilities!. trust me she understands!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
This is probably not what you want to hear, but your mom is right - this guy is a preying on you - he's a grown man, he shouldn't be trying to be your friend!
It's not that your mom doesn't trust YOU - she doesn't trust this older guy who is declaring his love and saying he wants to make you "feel good" - (that's code for sex)!. You don't want to end up pregnant right!?
Listen to your mom on this!. You'll thank her for it when you are older!. Trust me, I've been there!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It's not that your mom doesn't trust YOU - she doesn't trust this older guy who is declaring his love and saying he wants to make you "feel good" - (that's code for sex)!. You don't want to end up pregnant right!?
Listen to your mom on this!. You'll thank her for it when you are older!. Trust me, I've been there!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
not to get on ur bad side but i think what ur mom is doing is fine as long as u live in her house u live by her rules, she wont let u go to his house cuz u'll be alone with him in a HOUSE, with bedrooms!. when ur older im sure your mom wont have a problem with u seeing a guy 5 years older like when ur not a minor!. she says u cant talk to him again probably because she doesnt want u thinking about him and getting ideas Www@Answer-Health@Com
She is doing this because she is worried about you!. And she doesn't want to leave you alone with him while not under her supervision because any sexual behavior between you two would be illegal!. And NORMALLY, not all the time, but normally a reason a guy that age shows that much interest in a woman is for sex!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
after reading this question it has appalled me to think a 20 yr old is interested in a 15 yr old, come on!.!.!.what do you think he wants!?!?!?!? I have a daughter and personally!.!.!.!.!.I would kick his azz so hard he would be tasting my foot for a week!.!.!.whats does your dad think!?!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
She's just being protective of you!. Just imagine if it was your daughter doing this to you!. Maybe you should listen to her!. I have been through a similar situation!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
your mom says you cant see him anymore because he is a pervert-the only thing he wants from you is sex-and if you cant tell that from his letter, that is because you are too young to be with him-an older girl would have figured out what 'making you feel good' meant!. your mom isn't an idiot-she know, and she is trying to protect you!. the older guys can be very sneaky-they say all these romantic wonderful things to sweep a young innocent girl off her feet, so they can get into her pants!. that's what they do-they are grooming you for seduction-give mom some credit-she knows what kind of a guy he is, even if you don't!. I'm surprised that your parents havent phoned the cops, and had him charged!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
why is this question in the health section!?!?
anyhow, not to be rude or mean, but i don't really blame her!. he may only be five years older than you but there is a LOT of "growing up" that goes on during high school!.
i don't know this guy, and i don't know how long you've known him, but if you haven't known him long, and even if you have, you might want to ask yourself why he doesn't have friends that are his own age, and in college!.
if you really think he's a great guy and you don't understand why your mom doesn't want you to be around him, maybe you should ask her!. also, you might suggest that he comes and eats supper at your house or something that will give your mom the chance to meet him!. maybe she'll feel better about the whole thing if she feels like she knows him!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
anyhow, not to be rude or mean, but i don't really blame her!. he may only be five years older than you but there is a LOT of "growing up" that goes on during high school!.
i don't know this guy, and i don't know how long you've known him, but if you haven't known him long, and even if you have, you might want to ask yourself why he doesn't have friends that are his own age, and in college!.
if you really think he's a great guy and you don't understand why your mom doesn't want you to be around him, maybe you should ask her!. also, you might suggest that he comes and eats supper at your house or something that will give your mom the chance to meet him!. maybe she'll feel better about the whole thing if she feels like she knows him!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hey!.!.!. your mom is scared because she knows that there are a lot if guys out there that like young girls and will lie to them and tell them that they love them just to have sex with them!. I am not saying that that is what your friend is doing!.!.!. I am just saying that that is why your mom is scared!. She is trying to protect you from something that she feels is a threat to your health and safety and may ruin your life!. She was Ok with it until he said that he loved you and wanted to make you feel good and she probably feels that he crossed the line between friends and something else!. Think of it like sharks!.!.!. you are afraid of sharks aren't you!? Not every shark bites a human being!.!.!.but you are still afraid of them aren't you!? Why!? Because they have the potential to bite you and do horrific amounts of damage!. And your mom sees him as a shark!. Circling you licking his lips!. She is just doing her job trying to protect you and if your friend really is your friend and an adult than he will do what makes your mom feel safe!. Like only seeing you at your house when she is home until she feels comfortable with him and trusts him!. She needs to know him before she can know that he won't hurt you!.
I hope that that helps!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I hope that that helps!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com