How to prepare for anal sex?!
Question: How to prepare for anal sex!?
My bf and I are going to Vegas this weekend and that usually means he's going to want to have anal sex (it's the only time i can SCREAM in pain LOL), and he's excited about it! We've only done it about 3 or 4 times in the past 3 years (only happens on vacation=D) and I'm pretty tight!.
I still think that anal is mean to be an EXIT ONLY, but i'll do it once a year if that makes him happy, lol!. Anyways, since it is an EXIT, is there anyway to clean the inside!? I heard someone talk about an anal kit, but dunno what it is!.
Any advice!? Should I take ibuprofen, hahaha,
But really though, serious answers please!. I don't want your negative response or why i do it if it hurts (eventually one day I work myself up to do it enough times where I'll actually like it)
PS- Usually after anal sex, he ends up doing everything I say and ask for during the duration of our vacation so thats a plus=PWww@Answer-Health@Com
I still think that anal is mean to be an EXIT ONLY, but i'll do it once a year if that makes him happy, lol!. Anyways, since it is an EXIT, is there anyway to clean the inside!? I heard someone talk about an anal kit, but dunno what it is!.
Any advice!? Should I take ibuprofen, hahaha,
But really though, serious answers please!. I don't want your negative response or why i do it if it hurts (eventually one day I work myself up to do it enough times where I'll actually like it)
PS- Usually after anal sex, he ends up doing everything I say and ask for during the duration of our vacation so thats a plus=PWww@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
What happens in VegASS!.!.!. lol!
Anal activities can be cleaner if you enjoy a warm enema!. If your hubby likes kinky things like anal sex, then he'll LOVE giving you an enema!. It's just a little nozzle in your bumm that is used to gently squirt and fill you with warm water or a mild soap solution!. I recommend warm water so you don't experience any irritations that soap can cause!.
Lubrication and patience are the keys to enjoying anal sex!. Also, there are desensitizing lubricants (anal-eze) that can make your life easier!.
Unless you're "into pain," then sex simply shouldn't be painful!. I mean if you don't enjoy other anal activities like dildos, butt plugs or fingers, then a penis in your bumm once a year is undoubtedly a shock to the system! I recommend a little ********* to get you used to the sensation of penetration and being "filled!." It may help you to accommodate your husband in your hiney without SCREAMING!
LOL! Anyways, have fun and good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Anal activities can be cleaner if you enjoy a warm enema!. If your hubby likes kinky things like anal sex, then he'll LOVE giving you an enema!. It's just a little nozzle in your bumm that is used to gently squirt and fill you with warm water or a mild soap solution!. I recommend warm water so you don't experience any irritations that soap can cause!.
Lubrication and patience are the keys to enjoying anal sex!. Also, there are desensitizing lubricants (anal-eze) that can make your life easier!.
Unless you're "into pain," then sex simply shouldn't be painful!. I mean if you don't enjoy other anal activities like dildos, butt plugs or fingers, then a penis in your bumm once a year is undoubtedly a shock to the system! I recommend a little ********* to get you used to the sensation of penetration and being "filled!." It may help you to accommodate your husband in your hiney without SCREAMING!
LOL! Anyways, have fun and good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Two things, Lubrication and a condom!. You can get lubrication gel from your chemist and before you go let him do a bit of penetration practising the gel and his finger to 'acclimatise' you!. The condom is essential since anal sex can cause abrasions on the intestine wall and if semen enters you could get an infection or, worse still, AIDS!. Be careful and enjoy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Get rid of the perverted "boyfriend" and wait for a respectful, loving, responsible HUSBAND is what you do!
Your "boyfriend" is a selfish male animal and not a man for expecting you to do something so harmful!. Even if he uses a condem, which he should, it is still very harmful to you!.
This is not a negative response!. You are playing with your health!. That part of the body was not designed for that sort of activity!.
Dump the brute!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Your "boyfriend" is a selfish male animal and not a man for expecting you to do something so harmful!. Even if he uses a condem, which he should, it is still very harmful to you!.
This is not a negative response!. You are playing with your health!. That part of the body was not designed for that sort of activity!.
Dump the brute!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
make sure you go to the bathroom first!. and if it hurts a lot, try asking him to wear a condom or lube up (or both) so that it goes in easier!. also, if he plays with your butt first, it'll loosen you up!. try having him play with your butt and your crotch at the same time to get you to relax and enjoy it!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Use an enema for cleaning!.
And lots of lube for sex!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
And lots of lube for sex!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
get some anal eaze its a lube the relaves your butt so it goes in with less painWww@Answer-Health@Com
As others have suggested, lots of lube is essential!. A condom would be wise too!. Ignore what close minded people say!. Anal sex is in NO way a reflection of who you are as a person!. Anal sex can be a both a great bonding experience with your partner and enjoyable if approached the right way!. You're sharing something extremely private that most people don't!. If you don't want to do it then you shouldn't do it!. There is nothing wrong with not liking it!.
It helps to be relaxed!. When you're nervous your muscles are tense, ergo your anus (a muscle) will be tense too!. This will cause it to hurt!. Make sure you're worked up before so you'll be more relaxed mentally as well as physically!. The increased blood flow that occurs when you're aroused will help loosen the muscle!. Don't just go all out immediately!. You have to slowly stretch the muscle!. Have him use his fingers or buy a toy!. There are toys that are made to slowly stretch the anus!. I would seriously consider taking around 15 minutes of preparing that area before sex begins!. Even when you start having sex, take your time to acclimate the size and take it slow!. It shouldn't hurt!. If it hurts, have him pull back a bit and wait until it doesn't!.
I have to admit the few times I have tried anal in the past I had some sort of chemical assistance!. I used poppers, which relaxes the muscle!. As with all drugs, they can be damaging to your mental and physical health!. I don't want to use poppers again, so I'm a bit nervous as to when the time comes that I choose to have this type of sex!. The following site lists the risks:
http://www!.dancesafe!.org/documents/drugi!.!.!.
Two sites that discuss the whole stigma of anal sex:
http://sexuality!.about!.com/od/sexinforma!.!.!.
http://sexuality!.about!.com/od/sexualheal!.!.!.
Www@Answer-Health@Com
It helps to be relaxed!. When you're nervous your muscles are tense, ergo your anus (a muscle) will be tense too!. This will cause it to hurt!. Make sure you're worked up before so you'll be more relaxed mentally as well as physically!. The increased blood flow that occurs when you're aroused will help loosen the muscle!. Don't just go all out immediately!. You have to slowly stretch the muscle!. Have him use his fingers or buy a toy!. There are toys that are made to slowly stretch the anus!. I would seriously consider taking around 15 minutes of preparing that area before sex begins!. Even when you start having sex, take your time to acclimate the size and take it slow!. It shouldn't hurt!. If it hurts, have him pull back a bit and wait until it doesn't!.
I have to admit the few times I have tried anal in the past I had some sort of chemical assistance!. I used poppers, which relaxes the muscle!. As with all drugs, they can be damaging to your mental and physical health!. I don't want to use poppers again, so I'm a bit nervous as to when the time comes that I choose to have this type of sex!. The following site lists the risks:
http://www!.dancesafe!.org/documents/drugi!.!.!.
Two sites that discuss the whole stigma of anal sex:
http://sexuality!.about!.com/od/sexinforma!.!.!.
http://sexuality!.about!.com/od/sexualheal!.!.!.
Www@Answer-Health@Com