Im 13 almost all my friend have had sex at 14 what is the appropiate age you thi!


Question: Im 13 almost all my friend have had sex at 14 what is the appropiate age you think is ok!?
Ok heres how it goes im 13 and my girlfriend had sex at 14 my 2 ex-step sisters had sex at 14 my other friend had sex at 13 my ex-step mother had sex at 12!. im just wondering what age is it ok to have sex what age do you think will be approprate dont tell me to wait until im married cuz im not catholic or christian or anything so im just wondering cuz when i was 12 this boy i like serious bugged me 24/7 to let him get some but i just ignored him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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Honestly, I get the impression that you're feeling a little pressured to have sex at 14, because others you know have done it at 14!. But it's not a race to the finish line!.!.!.!.get my drift!?!
Sex isn't a sport, a pass-time, hobby, or competition!.
Whether you have a religion or belief system, it boils down to YOU!
Sex is about YOU being ready --- with the right person --- at the right time --- as well as being protected!.
I can't overstate this more - even if you love, respect, and trust your partner you have to be ready to protect your body from pregnancy and STD's - not to mention the emotional part!.

So, there's my soap box in a nutshell!. I don't know you, but I know you're young, and I hope my words give you some guidance!. Nothing wrong with waiting until you're of consenting age - really! :-)

If nothing else - remember to be true to yourself - because in the end, that's all that matters!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

So after reading most of the other responses, i would have to agree!. At 13~14 it is young although to you it might not seem like it!. Like when i was your age it didn't seem like it, but i didn't even like guys at that time so i didn't really care, but now I'm 17 almost 18 and just the thought of people that young having sex is well!.!.!.disappointing, like all the girls i knew who got pregnant in middle school!. After that everyone just called them sluts!. Another thing is middle school relationships hardly last very long even high school relationships don't last very long!. So i wouldn't be surprised if this guy just wants to get in your pants!. In any case there is no set age, its basically when you want to or feel ready to have sex!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

I know you've probably heard this before, and ignored it, but I promise you that it is true!. I wouldn't have listened to this when I was 13, but I wish that you will!. Guys will respect you more, and will want to be with you more, if you are a virgin!. If not a virgin, then keep your number of partners to no more than 1-2!. Be really picky about who you are with!. You will have all the power in the relationship if you can do that!.
What age is ok!? It depends on the person, and maturity level of the person!. I don't think anyone would be mature enough under 15, and most people aren't mature enough until they're at least 18!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

Hi there, the "right time" is different for everybody!. My husband and I waited until we were married and in my case, I wouldnt have had it any other way!. Sex is meant to be intimate and something that people that are in love share!. My advice is just wait until youre SURE its right and someone you could see yourself marrying!.!.!.not someone that may hurt you!.!.!.or leave you if an accident happened i!.e!. pregnancy!. Sex is one of the biggest steps you will ever take!. Dont do anything you even think you may regret later!. It doesnt matter who is doing what around you!. You will be the only one that will have to loose sleep and deal with it should you regret anything!. Make sure you can trust the person!.!.!.!.!.!.But although you dont want to hear this, marriage is the best bet!. You may find it hard to wait and you may come close you giving in sometimes, but if you just wait, I promise you, you wont regret it then!. Not necessarily wait just for religous reasons, for your own well-being and for your peace of mind!. I hope this helps you! Www@Answer-Health@Com

I know you don't want us to tell you to wait until marraige due to religious reasons, but religious reasons aren't the only reason to wait that long!. I'm not religious in the slightest bit, but I believe in waiting until marraige, or at least until I'm in my 20s and I am with someone I truly love!. As a teenager, I know that many times it feels like you may be "in love" but truthfully it is HIGHLY unlikely that you are in love at such a young age!. Sex is more than physical!. When its with someone you love, its actually emotional too!. I'm waiting until I'm with someone I love!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

I think 13 years old is a little too young!. I had sex for my first time at 14 and I think that was a little too early but don't get me wrong I defintely enjoyed it and wouldn't regret it for a minute because it was with the most special person in my life this far into my years!. At the same I think you should have sex when you are ready but I think you are a little to young to be having it right now and I definetly wouldn't sweat it!. I read a survey on this awhile back and the average age was 16 which because teenagers usually lie, I would say it is probably 15 and a half!. Anyhow I wish you the best of luck with it and once you start you can't stop!.
P!.S!. -----> Use protectionWww@Answer-Health@Com

you know your mature enough to have intercourse when, you dont laugh at the following words:
Vagina
Breast
Penis
Anus
Sex
Intercourse
Condom

when you can go into a store and buy or ask to be sold condoms, or any other type of protection without being embarssed or ashamed to ask!. When you can ask yourself "am i ready to have sex!?" and come up with the answer "yes" right away with any explination!. When you
are prepared to deal with the consequences of an unwanted pregnancy!.
When you have educated yourself on STD's STI's and any other dicease that may be transfered during intercourse!. Above all abstinance(the practice of not having sex), is always the best choice for teenagers!.

thats when your ready to make love!.
And be careful about who choose as a partner!. A more conservative sex life will always be a more responsible desicion!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Sex is a completely personal decision!. Don't do it because your friends are doing it or someone is pressuring you!. And for that matter, don't NOT do it because someone is pressuring you not to!. Do it when and where you feel comfortable, and with someone you feel comfortable doing it with!. Sex can be a beautiful thing, but it can come with some very serious repercussions (pregnancy, sexually transmitted diseases, etc!.) So if you don't feel like it, don't!. If you do want to, well, make sure you're protected, and there you go!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Not going to say its right at a young age but I think a reasonable age is 16 but with protection!. 14 I think is a bit too young to be having sex to be honest but who I am to say anything, my first time was when I was 15 but that's still too young and I sort of regret it now considering my gf broke up with me sometime after it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

well if ur a girl u probly should wait untill atleast 15 or 16 i mean the guys penis will probly be like 2 inches at this point in life!.!. anyway most guys lose respect for you if you have sex with them wait a year or 2 btw the way losing your virginity hurts!.!.!. youll bleed and you wont enjoy it the first time at all most likelyWww@Answer-Health@Com

Dont rush into this, there really isnt any certain time that I or anyone else can tell you to make this move!.!. Only you can decide when the time is right for you!. You're only 13 just enjoy life for what it is right now, Hope this helped some!. Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Oh wow!. That is too young!. You may not think so now, but once you get older and look at 13 year olds you will know that it is too young!. A LOT of maturing happens during 15+!. I think 17 is a good age!. Maybe 16!. But honestly!.!.!.!.don't do it!. You'll regret it!. You really will!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

WOAH ! Slow down your just a kid ,it sounds like your friends ex-step mom ,and ex-step sisters are whores !. If you do ,do it soon dont be surprised if people call you a whore because well you are one then haha !. Enjoy being a kid ughh !):Www@Answer-Health@Com

i don't think there is an appropriate age i just think it is when you know your ready!. btw waitin till marriage might just be a long time!. but just because someone did it at a certain age doesn't mean you have to too!.

make sure you use protectionWww@Answer-Health@Com

I'm 13 and I did it over the summer!. I don't advise it I worried for weeks if she was pregnant!. Even with protection I was freeked out!. My point is that sex can be a huge mistake so wait till you are ready!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I think you should wait until you're AT LEAST 15!.
After that then do whenever you're ready,
but make sure you have the right guy!
Once you loose your virginity, you can never get it back!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I dunno do it when you want to i guess but if it seems wrong don't do it!. But yeah i guess you should wait awhile 14 is pretty early!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Wait until you're at least 18!. Having sex before that, is considered rape, even if you consent!.

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Well, I first had sex when I was 14 and I really wish I would have waited!.!.!.you should wait until your are in a commited relationship with a person that you love!.!.and make sure he wears protection :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

The age that says you're an adult!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

do it when ur ready cuz guys just wanna quick **** and if u do it with just some ******* punk ur gonna hurt for nothing!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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lol your friends are sluts the longer you wait more guys will want ya Www@Answer-Health@Com

i did it when i was 15

do it when u feel ready

12 - 13 is too young i thinkWww@Answer-Health@Com

13! yeah, im 13 too and thats kinda young!.!.!.!.but F u c k yeah i would love to have sex at this age!Www@Answer-Health@Com

you guys are slut!.!.!.!.wait till your at least like 18 best after your marriedWww@Answer-Health@Com

well I'm 16 now but i did it on mi 15 birth day so when ever you feel is right but i say try to last till 15Www@Answer-Health@Com

There is going to be plenty of time in your life to grow up and be an adult!. More time than you ever get to be being a kid!. So enjoy the time you do have rather than having sex and complicating your life with boys, birth control, pregnancy scares, std's!. It might feel good, but so does masturbation!.

One thing you need to understand is that boys think about one thing and one thing only!.!.!. sex!. They will tell you they love you, tell you how beautiful you are, etc!.!.!. all just to get what they want!.!.!. sex!. some guys will even claim they will love you or love your more if you have sex with them!.!.!. not true!. Love does not equal pressure!.

I wish I had waiter longer than I did!.!.!. so do the rest of my friends!.

Just because other kids are deciding to have sex, does not mean you have to!.

So yes, I say wait until you are married!. You don't have to have religious beliefs to not have sex before marriage!.

If for whatever reason YOU decide to have sex sooner, wait until you're 18!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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