Help me change. Why am I this way?!


Question: Help me change!. Why am I this way!?
Im depressed and I can think of a million things that i think are bad in my life!. I need advice on changing!. I'm very shy, i can't seem to ever focus in school this is my senior year and my accumulative gpa is 3!.14 and i can't help but stress over weather i would be successful in life!. I finally made the basketball team but just find myself on the bench while the teams best player uses drugs to get better, and i feel useless!. My mom has a new boyfriend and i feel like she doesn't give a crap about me anymore, i!.e she forgets to pick me up from practice and i have to walk 7miles tired to get home!. I'm 6'3 1/2 and 230 lbs and everybody walks over me because im too nice!. I have never had a girlfriend and i am too shy to ask one out, the hard part is not talking to them, but its more of my fear of rejection, since I'm rejected from almost everything i should be used to it!. All in all I have I lots of other issues, and feel depressed most of the time, I dont want to take any drugs to make me feel better i want to change the problems any advice would be helpful!.
PS: TY for reading and commiting if you do i know its taking away from your own time to help me out and I'm sorry!. Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
People treat you how you treat yourself!. Besides changing simple things try channelling all your focus into one thing (basketball maybe) and use what you call depression to push you to be better at it!.!. When life pushes you you gotta push back twice as hard!. No one says anything is easy and i can see you just need attention and affection for starters but when you feel like you do its a vicious cycle!.
Dont worry about girls if you feel too shy in person try contacting them on the internet and when you gain the confidence ask them out in person!. Theres no judge to say who's successful and who's not you can get that out of your head you are what you are and if in the end of the day you can look in the mirror and be happy with yourself and that your a good person then everything else is a bonus!.
Stop worrying about what everyone else thinks because to be honest they are all too busy thinking about themselves!.
And stop apologising!.
I know its hard when you think like you do but it starts with you!. your 6'3 230 if all else fails just go beat the crap out of some people that should help lolWww@Answer-Health@Com

Hey! Well first let me say that I'm in high school and I know what it's like to try to balance the stress of sports, grades, family, and a social life!. When i get overwhelmed i tend to sleep and just let a few small things slide so I don't go insane!. i think you should stay the nice kid that you are but don't let other people take advantage of you!. Tell your mom how you feel because it's important that she know!. As for girls the ones worth talking to won't reject you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Hey,i have a little bit of advice:
1:Try to get your mom alone and tell her what's going on,or try to show that you feel left out or alone!.
2:If you dont feel needed on the basketball team,quit,the coach will wonder or see that they lost a great player!.Try a different sport or join some clubs!.
3:Now about the girls,try upping your game or changing your style!.Or become friends with some of the girls,then maybe ask them out,you will feel more comfertable that way!.Plus you could act like your more interested and were a nice colone(P!.S!.dont wear to much,cause the boys at my school do that and they stink!=) it's great that you have stayed out of drugs and keep up the work!If your shy,like i said try to join clubs and hang out with new people or sit at a certain table!.Someone in this world loves you so keep that in mind and think how far youve come in life,keep goin strong!Www@Answer-Health@Com





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