I want to die so badly. What should I do?!
Question: I want to die so badly!. What should I do!?
I started cutting myself about a week ago so I wouldn't do anything else; however, I feel that even this isn't working well!. I want to die so badly I hate life and everything else!. There is a little part of me that wants to stay alive, but barely!. I hate doctors because I can never answer them truthfully!. 'Do you cut youself!?' 'No I don't' 'Ok then come see me in two weeks'Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Everyone is here for a reason!. If you weren't supposed to be here you wouldn't, but you are here!. That is what I Truly believe!. Have you always felt this way!. Probably not!. If you are not here you might cause someone else pain -- emotional kind!. If not, well I'm sure that there is someone in this life that has pain that maybe you can help!.
They say time heals all wounds!. But first you need to be truthful with yourself, others and maybe you will see life in a different light!. Don't be afraid of the truth, just tell the doctors!.
Whatever situation you're in remember that life comes in seasons and things change if things are not that positive now, that too can change, don't give up!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
They say time heals all wounds!. But first you need to be truthful with yourself, others and maybe you will see life in a different light!. Don't be afraid of the truth, just tell the doctors!.
Whatever situation you're in remember that life comes in seasons and things change if things are not that positive now, that too can change, don't give up!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Why do you have to lie to the doctor!? You can connect with what's really going on inside of you and feel alive again but only if you can establish enough trust with a therapist to tell the truth!. If you answer truthfully will they put you in the hospital!? Is that why you have to lie!?
Maybe you could find a different therapist, one you like better and then maybe you could stop cutting for awhile so you don't have to lie and tell them what you're doing!. It might be a starting point for some real help, some real discussion!. I don't know!. It's just a thought!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Maybe you could find a different therapist, one you like better and then maybe you could stop cutting for awhile so you don't have to lie and tell them what you're doing!. It might be a starting point for some real help, some real discussion!. I don't know!. It's just a thought!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
You want to die because you hate yourself!. But do you love or care for anyone at all!. Because if you do, you will break their heart in the worst possible way!. I know because I have had three suicides in my family and friends!. I cried for weeks after and was depressed for years!. I will always blame myself for my lack of awareness, for my failing to change the circumstances that led to these suicides!. Others tell me it wasn't my fault that there was nothing I could do!. That doesn't matter to me now!. Someone said that you have no idea how much you will hurt others by this act and I can guarantee you you will hurt someone very badly indeed!. So much that it is a wound unlike the cuts on you that will not heal, not even in time!. It is a permanent thing!. So please call a hot line and get some help for yourself!. You're only 21 and circumstances can change for you so you have a whole wonderful lifetime to live!. Please get help, care at least that much for your self!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Grab a phone book and look for the numbers for suicice hotlines!. There should be someone to talk to in person and they will listen to you and can help you out!. Please try it, there's no harm in at least giving them a call!.
Also, when you see the doctor, be honest next time!. They can't help you much if you tell them all is well when in fact it isn't!. The issues you suffer from are a real illness and there are ways it can be treated!.
Don't let the past rule you like this, take each day one at a time and work on moving forward!. Please be strong and don't give up!. Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Also, when you see the doctor, be honest next time!. They can't help you much if you tell them all is well when in fact it isn't!. The issues you suffer from are a real illness and there are ways it can be treated!.
Don't let the past rule you like this, take each day one at a time and work on moving forward!. Please be strong and don't give up!. Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Take a deep breath!. Now that you've got your senses back quickly throw away anything you can use to cut yourself as far as possible!. Next brainstorm everything in your life but be very positive!. Really try and see hope in yourself and your life!. Next change your character, even put up an act if you've got to, but be friendly, outgoing to some point, and brave!. Never lose that conscious voice that helps you even for a second!. Talk to someone you love and care about and really try to save yourself!. You've got to do this!. There are people who really do love you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Wow! You say that there is a little part of you that wants to stay alive!. Go to that place and grab it with two hands!! You are in a pretty dark place at the minute but believe me there is light at the end of the tunnel!.Change your doctor,seek counselling they are non- judgemental and can really help!. Speak with friends!. Ring lifeline or any other crisis intervention hot lines!. You say that you don't have anybody that truly cares about you, well you don't know me and I care enough to take the time of day to respond to your question!. Hang in there!. Andy!.MWww@Answer-Health@Com
you really need to find someone to talk to!. Aunt, uncle, friend, suicide hotline worker, anyone!. It helps to get it all out there!.!.!. and if your life is so empty that you would like to die, I truely hope you find something to fill that void!. I saw you don't like church but maybe you could try a different one!? Going to church doesn't magically make you happy (seriously, I was more depressed after going to church and realizing I was no better off by sunday afternoon!.!.!.) but developing a relationship with Christ and realizing how much He loves *you* can sometimes put things in perspective!.
and hun i KNOW cutting makes it better at the moment, but some day, when you do feel better!.!.those scars will be there!. I have to explain mine in job interviews, to boyfriends, my 3 year old little girl :(
Please be careful!.!. and if for some reason you want to talk, I'd listen!. But I do wish you'd consider a hotline, sometimes they are very well staffed and sometimes!.!. not tho!. I will pray for you!. I'm sorry you are struggling!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
and hun i KNOW cutting makes it better at the moment, but some day, when you do feel better!.!.those scars will be there!. I have to explain mine in job interviews, to boyfriends, my 3 year old little girl :(
Please be careful!.!. and if for some reason you want to talk, I'd listen!. But I do wish you'd consider a hotline, sometimes they are very well staffed and sometimes!.!. not tho!. I will pray for you!. I'm sorry you are struggling!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Get a psychiatrist!. Or at least someone to hear you out!. No need to take away your life, you know!. How many people thought they lived pointless, uneventful lives, until discovering their passions and (positively) marked the world indefinitely!? In the end, its all up to choice!. You want to die!? Sure go ahead!. I can't force you otherwise!. But remember, you're losing an entire life ahead of you!. An entire lifetime filled with opportunities!. A life filled with much potential of happiness, joy, freedom!. You choose what you make of life!. Its always your choice!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm sorry you feel so badly!. I've been there and I can tell you that the bad times really do go away!. Please call a suicide prevention hotline in your area!. You should be able to find a phone number on the internet!. You can talk anonymously to the person there and tell them anything you want and they will not judge you!. Please do it!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
don't kill yourself, you'll be damning yourself straight to hell!. Eternal damnation is much worse than living a lonely life!. I know, I've been where you have been!. Find something that makes you happy!. Friends, hobbies, there is so much out there!. You don't have to be miserable!. Even if you feel the whole world hates you, cuz i've been there too, God loves you and will always!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
There are crisis lines that are around!. I am not sure where you are located, but you should try calling one of them!. It is completely confidential, and you're able to talk to someone!. Also, I find that another good thing that I suggest is that people should write a journal about their feelings!. Hope this helps!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
What makes you want to die so badly!?
Please don't do anything to hurt yourself!. You have no idea what suicide does to the people left behind!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Please don't do anything to hurt yourself!. You have no idea what suicide does to the people left behind!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Call the suicide hotline!. Tell them everything you've written in this question!.
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go to church, prontoWww@Answer-Health@Com
why would u want to do that!? suicide is bad and can send u to hellWww@Answer-Health@Com
I would like to ask a favour of you - please stop - think and see if you can remember one thing about today that was nice or bought some joy to you - however small - I hope that you can think of one thing even if its a tiny tiny thing and then to try and be thankful for that one thing
Tomorrow I would like you to try and do two things that were nice or bought you some joy and to try and be positive about this too
The next day three and so on and if you can make it to a week - then I would like to think that you might give yourself a big and I mean BIG pat on the back for making it thru the week
I does not matter what beliefs you have about heaven or hell - but I happen to believe that there sure is hell some pretty good things here on this earth that you can enjoy - even if its only the fact that it was a lovely day or a butterfly flew past or that the stars are beautiful at night
I also believe that even tho therapy to help you sort out problems is probably a good idea for many and I truly think that you may need help in this way
I also believe that it is within each person there isa strength that needs to come from within each person - the need to recognise that they need help and in asking your question you are in a way acknowledging that you need that help - that is a great start to positive things for you
I think that maybe you have a deep depression - have you had a good checkup to see if there is any underlying physical reason that you are thinking that you like to harm yourself to the point that you dont want to be a part of the other nice things that can happen in this world
having a malfunctioning thyroid can cause really bad depression for some people
You are not the first person on this planet to have been made to go to church and also not the first to hate your dad for it - please go get some help and give your help a chance to rebuild your life and your confidence - death is so final a solution and does not really solve much - but in trying to do something good for yourself - you will have achieved somthing that you cannot do in death Www@Answer-Health@Com
Tomorrow I would like you to try and do two things that were nice or bought you some joy and to try and be positive about this too
The next day three and so on and if you can make it to a week - then I would like to think that you might give yourself a big and I mean BIG pat on the back for making it thru the week
I does not matter what beliefs you have about heaven or hell - but I happen to believe that there sure is hell some pretty good things here on this earth that you can enjoy - even if its only the fact that it was a lovely day or a butterfly flew past or that the stars are beautiful at night
I also believe that even tho therapy to help you sort out problems is probably a good idea for many and I truly think that you may need help in this way
I also believe that it is within each person there isa strength that needs to come from within each person - the need to recognise that they need help and in asking your question you are in a way acknowledging that you need that help - that is a great start to positive things for you
I think that maybe you have a deep depression - have you had a good checkup to see if there is any underlying physical reason that you are thinking that you like to harm yourself to the point that you dont want to be a part of the other nice things that can happen in this world
having a malfunctioning thyroid can cause really bad depression for some people
You are not the first person on this planet to have been made to go to church and also not the first to hate your dad for it - please go get some help and give your help a chance to rebuild your life and your confidence - death is so final a solution and does not really solve much - but in trying to do something good for yourself - you will have achieved somthing that you cannot do in death Www@Answer-Health@Com
please read what i have to say i really think i can help! sorry about the lenght but i dont think i could have shortened it
stay positive! positive! positive! it really helps! if you think about it everyone deep down wants to be happy, right!? so just think about what it is out there that makes you happy or would make you happy!. theres something whether it be to be in love or to have fun with friends or anything!
then next ask yourself whats keeping you from doing these things that would make you happy!.
then you ask yourself what it is that is keeping you from your happy life and the last question u ask is, whatever it is thats keeping you from a happy life, that's blocking you from a will to live, is it really worth being there!?
nope! so all you got to do is change that part of your life that is keeping you from being the happy person that deep down you know exists inside you!
if that was confusing heres an example!.
if i was depressed about my friends and felt non of them really cared about me and this problem really weighed down my soul i could say to myself "i want to be happy, but im not because i dont have good friends, in order to be happy i need friends who care about me!" "why dont they care about me!?" then i would really think hard about what i do how i act maybe that causes people to not care about me as much as i'd wish to!. then i would think "what is it about people that create other people to care for them, what factors in life attract human attraction!? then i finally ask myself what factors in other people attract to me!? well i like to be around generous people, someone who i know that if i say something stupid i wouldnt have to worry about any criticism, i like people who i can have a fun time with, someone i can laugh so hard with that my face hurts from smiling!. and the last thing i look at is that what it is that i noticed about true friends, the one thing i really feel i need to be happy, is that the qualities that i like in my friends someone positive!. everything i noticed i liked were all positive qualities non negative!. so maybe what i need to do about myself so i can have friends who care about me is to be just like the imaginary friends i pictured in my head, i need to be more positive!. and i would back my answer by also realizing nice happy positive thinking people seem to always have the kind of friends i want in my like and i also notice i wouldnt want to hang out with a negative person all day, i would maybe to brighten one of there days but i may not enjoy it very much!. so all i need to do is be positive! positive! think good thoughts! good things WILL come my way! i know it! ill start with tomorrow!:)
i really have no idea if that example of finding what you may need to change about yourself applied to you at all but i hoped at least you could understand my, i guess you could say theory on, how the thought process of finding happiness can work!.
please email me i want to help you personally! tell me whats on your mind and how we can get through this! i care about you!Www@Answer-Health@Com
stay positive! positive! positive! it really helps! if you think about it everyone deep down wants to be happy, right!? so just think about what it is out there that makes you happy or would make you happy!. theres something whether it be to be in love or to have fun with friends or anything!
then next ask yourself whats keeping you from doing these things that would make you happy!.
then you ask yourself what it is that is keeping you from your happy life and the last question u ask is, whatever it is thats keeping you from a happy life, that's blocking you from a will to live, is it really worth being there!?
nope! so all you got to do is change that part of your life that is keeping you from being the happy person that deep down you know exists inside you!
if that was confusing heres an example!.
if i was depressed about my friends and felt non of them really cared about me and this problem really weighed down my soul i could say to myself "i want to be happy, but im not because i dont have good friends, in order to be happy i need friends who care about me!" "why dont they care about me!?" then i would really think hard about what i do how i act maybe that causes people to not care about me as much as i'd wish to!. then i would think "what is it about people that create other people to care for them, what factors in life attract human attraction!? then i finally ask myself what factors in other people attract to me!? well i like to be around generous people, someone who i know that if i say something stupid i wouldnt have to worry about any criticism, i like people who i can have a fun time with, someone i can laugh so hard with that my face hurts from smiling!. and the last thing i look at is that what it is that i noticed about true friends, the one thing i really feel i need to be happy, is that the qualities that i like in my friends someone positive!. everything i noticed i liked were all positive qualities non negative!. so maybe what i need to do about myself so i can have friends who care about me is to be just like the imaginary friends i pictured in my head, i need to be more positive!. and i would back my answer by also realizing nice happy positive thinking people seem to always have the kind of friends i want in my like and i also notice i wouldnt want to hang out with a negative person all day, i would maybe to brighten one of there days but i may not enjoy it very much!. so all i need to do is be positive! positive! think good thoughts! good things WILL come my way! i know it! ill start with tomorrow!:)
i really have no idea if that example of finding what you may need to change about yourself applied to you at all but i hoped at least you could understand my, i guess you could say theory on, how the thought process of finding happiness can work!.
please email me i want to help you personally! tell me whats on your mind and how we can get through this! i care about you!Www@Answer-Health@Com
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